Can’t add much since its been said but I do agree with no contact for a bit. It sounds like he is still holding onto negative feelings and needs more time and space. It’s tough but it’s true, but it sounds like you’ve realized that. Good luck and hope it all goes well
@whena … thank you dear … I’m not talking to him anymore … I started NC again… I wanna show him that I’ve changed and I want to be his friend for now … but … what do you think about wjat he said to me?
Do you think that he still have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt … and I’m willing to give him time …
but he’s sending me mixed signals … and I’m not sure if he has someone in his life 
…
What do you think?
And about your ex … just give him time … he’s trying to make you jealous … he’ll text you soon … don’t worry 
Thanx @sunshine11 … this time I’ll do my best to not break the NC … but I’m afraid that he have someone new in his life … and this thought is killing me
And do you think that he have feelings for me?
I know he’s hurt … but what he said about missing me and stuff …but he still want me out of his life … does this mean that he is in love with me but he’s still hurt?
@pusherlovegrl
I’m doing my best in working on myself … but I feel weak around him
You know … I’m doing great in my life now … but when it comes to him … I can’t help it … whenever I talk to him … all the good memories … the happy moments … comes back to me
Idk why
I’m trying my best not to show him that … but it’s hard …
And … I don’t wanna lose him …
but I feel like I did already … even that he said that he misses me sometime … but the fact that he still want me out of his life is terrifying me
Why does he want me out of his life this bad?
He said that he can’t forgive me anymore …
What do you think?
@Mema thats good chill dn’t stress as long that he is still single be with yourself again before u met…hw cheerful and sweet you are, be the girl he love before.
oh my ex i saw him in relationship i use to think its rebound cuz why so fast to have a new gf… but i lose hope i dn’t wanna hurt again…i hate him but still its his choice i dn’t know why he do that very fast so unreasonable but all i want to do is enjoy my life without him…hoping that girl will love him the way i am…
your doing great and yes he still probably still has feelings for you. keep working on yourself ti become more attractive to him. Im gonna try my hardest to do the same. could you give me your opinion on my newest issue, lol, this is horrible. :-/ stay strong you can do this.
If it has only been a month since you broke up, then if he does start to see another girl then it will be just a rebound and you shouldnt worry about it! I know that’s easy for me to say and so hard to not care about but try not to. I honestly think he still loves you very much and just says he wants you out of his life because he simply still has too many feelings for you and he cant really deal with it and his logic is telling him to push you away. How long were you two together?
Thanx @atedeschi93 for replying … yes I realise that I should give him his time now … I hope I can stick to the NC this time
@whena … she’s probably a rebound … maybe he’s trying to make you feel jealous … stay strong … I wish you all the best
@aamls … I hope he’s … I’m really afraid … I’ll do my best to improve myself …
I hope you’ll do the same
And I’m checking on your situation daily
@cassie … our relationship was a mess the last year … we had many fights … and break up many times … so I don’t think it’ll be a rebound
And we were together for 3 years … he loved me very much … I did too … but sometimes I was childish and got too jealous … so we fought alot
I hope he really is in love with me … I love him very much … and I’m trying my best to change for him …
● UPDATE !!!
so … I woke up today … and I saw a message from him on whatsapp from yesterday … 《 nice pic 》 .
( I changed my profile picture 3 days ago … and now he saw it )
so … should I reply? …
I’m thinking I can just say : “thanx” … and not anything more …
or should I ignore him?
hi mema,
just ask him wheather he want to marrie with you or not . if he is not interested then you have to choose other person by getting depressed and streesss
Thanx sohanlal yadav …we were thinking about getting married before the break up … but now we can’t discuss something like this …
Wtf, no don’t ask him if he wants to marry you or not…
Just say “Thank you” nothing more to say than that
Thanx @Clear … I said thanx to him … Of course I didn’t say anything about getting married …
anyways … he hasn’t reply yrt … I didn’t think he will
What do you about our last conversation?
Hi mema,
I think if you will be NC for two month. I think it would not go to work for only 1 month it okay .have you seen him sleeping with random girls. if you have seen him sleeping then only belive it don’t go on you friends words . friend are assole. as you told that you friend were jelious of relationship they can tell you all the negative about him. if you feeling with healing period. spend some time with family . go out with them . talk to friend but not to boys .because if you starting talking to boys he will think that you are over him. just don’t distube him for one month and just send him message after one month saying hi don’t send continuesly…daily he will get irriated and week after week after message him. telling him can we meet and meet at that place first time you meet them. and you fall in love…you sound so sweet and I think you come from nice family . I wish you get you bf back…I will pray for you .mema…
and some boys are very shy like me…I have not yet approached as I don’t have darreness to talk to my love as she has given me many chance. as you made him jeilous may be he got hearted and tell him that I will change I would not repeat it again .see we are you human we make mistake …he will defently going to melt…ask him for a date…
if he online it does n’t mean that he is talking to other girls and want to break a relationship with you . but he might want to be chilled listeing to songs and talk to his friend on fb to get they updates of they life and all other thing… don’t over think …remove all the negative point .because after marriage you will have the same problem of think thinkg negative about him. if he come late from office or he went for holiday tour for office. I knew girl will be ever time negatively about boys. some boys are good some are vast…it you choice that to choose it. am talking so much tooo you about beause this suitation is happing to me also…I wish talk straing and frankly with me…
dont’ trust the friends of bbf…they are mfb…