you keep chasing him and hes pushing you away. I told you not to do it.
But why is he doing this?
He went out with all our mutual friends … and he’s avoiding me
… he doesn’t want to talk to me … he’s rejecting me …
i told my cousin to talk to him … he said thanx to her for telling him what I wanted … and he blocked her too …
and i text him … he just didn’t reply … and when he knows the number is mine … he just block it without saying a word!
Mema
K2no nma7a kl she mn al post tb3i?
You really, really need to leave him alone for a little while. He will come around eventually to talk to you, but the more you do this, the harder it will be.
mema sunshine gave you great advise. hang in there and stay calm. you can do this keep yourself busy for a while and work on yourself. you can do this.
Koki.s
Idk … yallah ma problem …fe rad b mawdo3 tani eli … maybe had hwe?
@sunshine11 … @aamls … thank you both … I’ll do my best this time …I’ll leave him alone … “like I have any other option …lol” … I’m still working on myself … and I hope to avoid what happened last time …
But there’s a question …
Kevin said in he’s emails … that there are 4 stages of time healing …
Breakup Pain Healing >>>> Bad Memories Healing >>>> Missing You Badly >>>> Moving On
At what stage you think he’s now? …
According to his acts and reactions?
My friends think he’s moving on …
What do you think?
I think he is either in breakup pain or bad memories healing. but not sure which.
Thanx @Sunshine11 … I really hope he’s … I’m afraid he’s moved on …
He’s acting all fine and happy without me … and he actually look very happy in his photos … and our mutual friends … told me that he’s really happy and doing great
I’m afraid he had already moved on
he’s acting fine … and he cut me out of his life completely
and he even didn’t react at all when we ran into each other … like he doesn’t care !!
FOR ME TRY to give him a time maybe he can’t get over wht you do before just about try to figure out if you are in his situation u hurt then u saw ur ex asking want you back wht did you do.?
if im in his situation i do the same ignore you, not talk to you is help me to feel better…give him time cuz as long that you want him back but his not ready its wasted.
stay strong and try to feel better it takes time for everything i feel you im broken too i miss him now…im doing 2 days of nc rule but i know his talking with new friend girls now im so afraid that one day he got a gf… but im still hoping while im doing 30 days of nc he contact me and back to me.
RELAX. It’s only been a short while, and you are RUINING your chances of future reconciliation when you chase and smother him. Needy and clingy behavior is unattractive! Please for your own sanity, leave him alone and focus on yourself for a while.
i agree to @TristanJade your acting very needry and as long that ur asking his attention he is pushing you away from him… give him time to think don’t panic its hard if u love someone not to talk to them but lets help each other to do the nc rule.
@whena … no it is not like that … I ran into him … but I just said “hey” … he said “hay” back … I didn’t contact him for 24 hours … but then I stared texting him non stop … saying I just wanna be his friend … not any thing more … I acted clingy I know … but I was hurt from his behaviour towards me
I really wanted to meet him …
If I was in his situation … I’ll definitely meet him … cuz i really love him and care about him
we all are broken … and my ex is no better than yours . He’s a “women magnet” … unlucky for me … but I’m still hoping for the best … but in this situation … rushing into a relationship like this makes it probably a rebound relationship … hope you too will get together soon … and he’ll be the one contacting you before the 30 days are over …
@tristanJade … I was just afraid that i lost him once and for all … this not our first break up … and he’s never acted this way towards me before … that’s why I’m afraid …
usually it’s 2 weeks of chasing … 2 weeks NC … then we get back … but this time … I didn’t chase … I started NC immediately … and he acted like this?
I’ll leave him alone … but I’m really afraid that our relationship is dead by now
And I’ll never do this again “I hope” … but did I lost my hope with him?
YOU REALLY LOVE HIM HUHUH…I FEEL YOU SISSY EVEN ME IM MESSAGING MY EX ASKING IF WE CN FIX ABOUT US BUT WE ARE SO DIFF. ME AND MY EX STILL TALKING ABOUT FEELINGS BUT OUR PROBLEM IS MONEY…BUT U I BET HE CHANGE MAYBE HE WAS THINKING OF SOMETHING OR HE JUST USING HIS PRIDE NOW… CUZ HE WAS REALLY HURT FOR WHT HAPPEN…I KNOW WHT YOU THINKING …TRYING TO BEG FOR HIM,BACK TO HIM ASK HIM TO BE WITH YOU AGAIN NOT WITH OTHER GIRL…I DN’T KNOW HOW TO COMFORT YOU CUZ EVEN ME IM PRETENDING SOMETIMES IM OKEY SOMETIMES IM DYING…BUT TRY NOT TO BE ALONE… ME WHEN IM WITH FRIENDS I FORGET HIM EVEN FOR AN HOUR…
I really do … I feel like he’s my soul mate … we were perfect for each other … but the last year we were under alot of pressure … graduation year …
and his parents also found about our relationship … and gave him hard times … he stood for our love … and defended us … he even was kicked out from his home for a while because of our relationship…
All of these reasons put more pressure on us …
so we fought alot …
And he has lost hope on our relationship … saying I’ll never change and stop fighting over silly things … and that he don’t want to in a relationship right now … and he doesn’t love me enough to be together …
Now I’m hanging out with my friends and studying most of time so I can continue and get my master degree … and whenever I am alone at home and I have free time… I’m here on these forums
I’m doing my best … but I’m so sad that I lost him … and I’m losing hope to us getting back together …
And for your situation … at some point my ex had the same problem … but it’s not that big deal … you can solve it … you both should get a job “any job” … to help each other … and you’ll pass this situation soon I hope … I did it before … I worked and I helped him when he was going throw hard times
don’t be sad … love can always solve the problem
Hope to hear good news about your relationship soon … and about mine too
Hey … you should totally listen to Christina Aguilera’s sond … the voice whith in … it’s my fav. During hard times like this
THATS MY GIRL CHEER UP…OH SO ITS A GOOD SIGN HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH IM SURE YOU ARE BOTH SUFFERING LETTING GO…MAYBE HE WAS SO PRESSURE WHO TO CHOOSE YOU OR HIS FAMILY DN’T BE MAD AT HIM HEY U GIVE HIM ANOTHER PROBLEM INSTEAD COMFORT HIM THAT U ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR HIM ,THAT HE IS NOT ALONE FIGHTING TO UR RELATIONSHIP…I UNDERSTND U WANT HIM TO BE FRIENDS BUT TRY TO GIVE HIM TIME…MESSAGE HIM THAT U LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND U WAITING FOR HIM AS MUCH AS U CAN…
HMP…AS OF NOW WE ARE TALKING SAYING THE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER BUT WE CN’T STILL MOVE BY THE WAY IM FROM PHILIPPINES HIS FROM NEW ZEALAND… SO FAR AWAY…HE CN’T AFFORD TO GET ME BUT NOW I WAS PLANNING TO FIND JOB TO TAIWAN SO IF EVER WE HAVE A CHANCE TOGETHER SO EASY IF HE GET ME…STILL HOPING… :((((