My boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. He literally became my best friend and in the beginning he talked about how he has never been happier. We did argue over minor issues but we always got over them within a few minutes, so to me, there was nothing severely wrong. He told his dad that he thought I was the one. A month before we broke up he brought me to meet his baby and a few weeks before we broke up I asked him if he was happy and he said yes. He would send me cute messages telling me I am his best friend and even made cute little cards for me. One little argument turned bad however and he ended up telling me he wasn’t happy and hadn’t been for the last 2 months. He said he told me he was happy because he didn’t want to fight but that the little arguments and my insecurities got to him. I told him that communication could have fixed all of that and he came back for a few days for me to show him. He said I did everything right but that he couldn’t change the way he felt and that it’s easy for him to fall out of love. He told me we are different because I fight for things and he walks away. Of course I was devastated and tried constantly to get him back and all it did was make things worse. He told me he just wanted to be alone and doesn’t want a relationship but it’s just hard for me to toss things aside like they never happened. He started blocking me on social media and said he just didn’t want to see my posts or want random reminders which is confusing to me since he said he doesn’t love me anyways. He finally told me he was fine listening to me try to fix things and blocked my number a few days ago. 
How do I fix this or get him to unblock me? Do I have any hope?
@daniellek- Having him unblock you is the least of your worries. Men hate arguments! Even if you think you got over them in a few minutes, men don’t forget and they pile up over time into hurtful resentments which erode the love. Guys just want happy easy going relationship without drama and arguments. He wants to be alone now, so this is the time to do some self examination into why you had so many arguments in only 8 months of being together. Think about the part you played in them or if you were the one instigating most of them. If you stop and think about it, there really aren’t too many major things in life to argue about because life and everyone wants to be happy, ya know? There might be hope if you can change enough to make a guy happy to be with you. Don’t contact him for at least 30 days or more and then maybe send an email or text to ask how he’s doing. If you get a nice reply, ask to meet up for a fun day and don’t mention the break up or do anymore begging or trying to convince him to get back together. Be the girl you were when you first started going out. The girl he fell in love with. Good luck and don’t give up hope just yet…