Im a recovering addict as is my ex. I met her in treatment. I ended up getting kicked out of the treatment center we were at and not seeing her for almost 2 months while I went to another one. She waited for me. I got out and moved closer to where she was and thats when me and her started getting closer. Fast foward about 9 months and I ended up relapsing. I lied to her about my using and became a very different person. Shes very strong with her recovery as she works in treatment now. So I told her the truth and of course she was hurt but she was still there from a distant. I ended up going back to treatment and moving into a sober living. Prior to us breakin up she became very distant. Maybe texting once a day. I wasnt used to that so it really bugged me which I constantly was asking her if she still wanted to be with blah blah blah… It got to the point where she messaged me saying that I hurt her and that she iant foing to get trust back for me right away that I need to work on myself and give it a year. Honestly if thats what it would take I would happily do that. I just don’t kno if she even wants me anymore. My sponser who works with her told me to move on that she still loves me but isnt in love with anymore. I love her and I feel that I can get her back if I just keep doing what Im doing. Ive been on no contact for about 13 days now…