i dont know how cn i ever thnku u enof…bt everyone who knows my case suggest me i shud nt rply her…
bt i cn not b rude to nyone…i hav a guilt feeling…so not rplying her makes me think about it…i managed a day without it…but i keep thinking i shud not have been rude…
i mean she saw me she cud have came up and wished me…but she didnt even didnt think how will i feel…
she was goin home i gt a call and a text while she was at her home…
but i was hurt so neither i picked up no i replied…but nw u feel guilty …
Ideally no. You want them to wonder what happened to you and why you are not contacting them. You want to be on your ex’s mind as much as you can. And telling them you are not contacting for some time will defeat this purpose.
However, if your ex is currently calling you everyday or texting you everyday, then yes you should let them know that you don’t want them to contact you for a short period of time. Don’t give them any specifics. Just tell them to not contact you until you decide to contact them. Let them know you need some space and time right now.
Wouldn’t it be rude if I don’t contact my ex?
Wasn’t it rude of your ex to break your heart and leave you begging them to take you back? And yet, you’ll still do anything to be with them. Sometimes, rudeness is not as bad as you think it is.
Besides, you are doing no contact for your own mental peace and well-being. There is nothing rude about taking care of yourself.
Should I answer my ex’s text during no contact?
NO. Absolutely not. Whatever happens, don’t answer their text.
Should I answer my ex’s call during no contact?
No. You shouldn’t answer your ex’s call. The only exception to this is if you are close to ending your no contact and you are already feeling great about your life. If you think that talking to your ex will have you obsessing about them again, don’t answer their call.
thnku jst keep explaining me rite nw i dnt know whether i wnt her bak or not…i mean i know i was the screw uo bt she did play wid my emotions i cannot let her do that again…
ppl still tell me about her roaming with boys n in india…its not common…and it still hurts a lot wen i come to know all this…
i know…but y is she doin this…first she says that im over u…n den suddenly calls and dumps all the bullshit frm the past on me again…makng me feel bad…y ?
She is confused and she is not over you.stop overanalyzing her words and actions.focus on yourself,continue your plan and please don’t break it this time.
ok ill start it again n make sure i wnt break it…bt she told all kinds of bullshit that she likes someone…and that brother of mine is better than me and some guy dropped her off at the station wen she was goin home…i mean y she is telling me all that knowing it wont hav a gud effect on me…
yesterday before the msg in the eve after clg we crossed paths she had an attitude so did i…
bt knowing about other guy its still feels bad smwhere…
She was trying to make you jealous.don’t concentrate on her words.she can change it anytime.focus on your plan and make positive changes in your life.don’t over analyze her words/actions.
Its normal but everything is ok.all you should do is to continue NC for now.
Don’t worry about anything.everything is gonna be fine and you will feel better soon.just follow the plan.
thats the whole point i cnt c my frnds and family wont let me do dat …n evn she has become a different person…earlier she was sweet and down to earth person now she has somewhat of a superiority complex that im nt gud enof and she thinks tha every person in the world is bettr than me…
bhsid,
I can help you a little bit to deal with your break up but there is nothing i can do if your friends and family won’t let you contact her.
Its your life and you know whats best for you.
I suggest you to continue NC as long as you are feeling this way and ask yourself if you really want her back? and if you get her back,are you gonna have a long healthy relationship with her?
Sometimes we mistake obsession for love.once you get rid of this obsession,you can sort everything out.
My roller coaster bf broke up with me the second time after a weekend of space with NC. He texted to talk more about it but I ignored it because I didn’t want to hear more of he can’t change how he is feeling right now. He gave me his key to his apt the two weeks ago. I mailed his key and belongings left here by mail. Having anxiety I may have done the wrong thing in doing that. If we meet to exchange things like he suggested, I know we would end up right back where we started. We can’t resist each other. We have such an amazing time when together but apart we don’t communicate very well. It has it’s good moments but the frustration with the texts back and forth ruins the relationship atmosphere. Did I send the wrong message, like I don’t care at all about him or the grief of breaking up by mailing his things to him?
