we had been together 10 years and i took her for granted. Ignoring her messages and calls for days on end, choosing my friends over hers. Constantly turning down invites to go out with her and her friends. Never the less I loved her to death and have changed since the breakup, its been three months.
She texted me “we need to talk” before coming over. She opened with “we need to take a break.” I beged and pleaded but it made no difference. We had sex twice then she left on an agreeded two weeks no contact.
She went to on vacation with her girlfriends the next weekend. Seven days in a cracked and phoned her. I was a wreak and begged some more. It didnt work obviously. I didnt see her for another week where see went away to her friends cottage with a large group of people. When she got back we met up and she dumped me. We had sex again lol.
Since then we have remained in contact seeing each other every ten days. Shes hot and cold and we are still having sex. She has made it clear she doesnt want this to end but also does not want to get back together. She does not say “lets just be friends” and openely admits we will have sex again. This has been going on for three months.
I dont get to see her much as she works 6 days a week while in school and there is distance between us. She got close with another guy but i know they havent hooked up “yet.”
Im confused at why she does not just cut me off. She knows I want to get back together. She does not, but does want to continue seeing me as more then a friend.
I have been doing my own thing as I always have, and so is she.
My question is, should I continue to see her on her terms, or end it? The ultimate goal is to get her to commit.