It’s been a matter of days. Give her space. Read my other posts to you. What you need to see this through is already there, honestly.
You don’t have to do anything but be cool.
And process the anger, feel it. She’s fucking you around man! Don’t be a doormat. Stand your ground, but do so by being absent.
Just let her miss you for a few days, then go and see her.
She kissed you right? Then what are worrying about. Don’t even listen to what she said, she kissed you!
Ok cheers man,
Yh she did kiss me I didn’t make the move she did.
So I have looked at your posts I thought the photo thing might be a good idea but Patrick sounds like he has got his head on straight and sounds like a strong kinda guy,
Has she replied back to you yet? At the end of the day we all make mistakes we are only human don’t beat yourself up about it your still the same guy she fell in love with right?
Let me know what’s new with you dude
Well it’s all kind of confusing really, you know I said she kissed me and stuff and she wants to be friends, I’ve constantly asked for my stuff back from her house but she comes up with an excuse not to give it back.
We constantly text each other and we are meeting up again on Tuesday to go bowling or go for a drink somewhere,
I sent her a letter the other day and she sent me a text saying that it was cute so I’m a bit confused as what’s going on as she is hot and cold women are hard to read, she keeps saying she wants to be friends and is not ready to go back into a relationship yet she sends me kisses and stuff at the end of each text message so what should I do? Carry on what I’m doing or just go cold?
Do whatever you feel is best. When you meet on Tuesday, just enjoy her company. Then if the time arises, stand up for what you want. Tell her that you care about her and that you love her, and that friends just isn’t going to cut it for you. Be nice about it though, then walk away. She’s telling you she’s not ready for a relationship, so tell you’re not ready for just friends, because you’re not right? No point in beating around the bush.
Then again, it’s just an outsider’s point of view. Take the evening as it comes first, but don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. If you end up saying what you need to, you’ll need to give yourself time, so no contact.
But from your experience what do you think I should do? I’m still crazy in love with her and I think she is with me too otherwise she would kiss me and text me most of the time or am I reading the wrong signals here? What do you think?
Show her that you care about her, but show her you’re a man too. Be strong.
You don’t want to get pushed into the ‘friend zone’. There is no such thing, but you get what I mean. Be kind, but cold?
Don’t overthink it. You know how you feel, tell her and be strong. Don’t beg.
Ok buddy, well I will deffo update you about everything on Tuesday I guess
Please do mate, you’ll do great. Emails let me know when you post here, hit me up!
Yh same as me, so what’s going on with you guys then are you calling it a day or is it a lot more complicated than that? Where are you emailing me from btw just curious that’s all
Yo Charlie it’s craig here,
So I’m starting to get nervous about Tuesday buddy we are still texting almost everyday and giving 3 xxx after each text but there is still something inside me that’s like why she still talking to me if she didn’t want to be with me any suggestions??
Take your mind off it man. The place you’re in now mentally won’t do you any favours. You have to accept that it’s over. Even if it isn’t. Work from there.
She still texts me three kisses too. Unfortunately it doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Try not to look for any signs in anything outside of meeting in person. She’s still meeting you. Great.
As I say, you should give her a chance to miss you. Meet her, then just take a few days for yourself. Nothing will happen in those few days. Rationalise it.
Do you feel like dating anyone right now? No. Nor will she.
Yh I suppose your right buddy only thing, is that she is bipolar her mother texts me and asks how I am and says she wants us back together as I make her happy only thing is that I don’t want her mother getting involved as she might think that I am telling her mum to do these things when I’m not what do you think?
Man, if you’ve got her mother on your side you should be fine. Daughters trust their mother’s opinion more than anyone else’s. And it won’t come off like you are using her mom to get her back. No mom would do that to her daughter.
Cheers man, Yh her family and I get on really well they are great people just don’t want her mum pushing you know I might have a quick chat with her just to give her time i think
Yeah man I understand. When my ex and I broke up (we’re currently slowly getting back together) I sent her mom a text saying how sorry I was for everything and how much she meant to me and how I know I messed up the best thing that has ever happened to me. Then when my ex saw her mom recently her mom cried to her about that text and basically had my back without me even asking. So if her family loves you and they want you back together that’s HUGE.
Hey Ryan, do you think I should text my ex’s mom as well? She liked me and I was thinking of doing that even before I read this text. You know just that I deeply care about her and I am sorry about what happened. I don’t know if that’s a good idea or not just seeking your opinion!