So I am a 19 year old guy and my ex boyfriend who is 21 broke up with me 16 days ago. I did not contact him at all but then on day 14 I broke and texted him. It was a friendly text, not flirting or talking about our relationship. He texted back and said he can’t be friends Right now Because it’s still too weird. I asked him how he felt about his decision and he said he was still content with his decision. This conversation escalated into me talking about my feelings again trying to fix what had went wrong. He still said that we will not get back together. I then texted him commenting on how fast he gets into relationships just like he’s done for the past 3 relationships and he got upset with me because he said he’s ashamed of that. I only said that because I told him I was afraid of him getting into a relationship so fast. I sped up the no contact rule only because I know how fast he can move on. I made a huge mistake by texting him and talking to him about that. What do I do??
Only one thing to do dear… Restart no contact and stay fully commited to no contact for 30 days. during this time you should be rebuilding yourself, keep yourself busy, do the things you love to do, or meet new people. Do not fill your head with worries that your ex will jump into a new relationship. If it does happen that is out of our control, right? There is no point in consistently worrying about it. What will happen will happen regardless. All you can do is focus on yourself. Know your worth and know what you deserve. If he has feelings for you, he won’t go anywhere. So be strong for yourself and do the no contact. You can do this (: