Hi
After 18 days my ex wife left me , i posted on facebook that i was filling some sad papers (i know was stupid) and my ex called me upset to ask me about the papers and she was annoyed because she had to know I was filling them.
She didn’t mention anything about NOT doing it, all the opposite but was pissed off that she didn’t know about it and she started on about what happened and me too (i know also wrong)
(She cheated on me and left me and she was worried about her family not liking her at the moment ) so we argued about it. I asked to meet on monday and talk about everything with calm, she accepted…
So i need help to deal with this cause we are also meeting to sort out signing the papers!!
Help
I don’t know where you live, but I know that at least in CA, a divorce isn’t final when you sign the papers, I think that is true most other places, too. It is just the beginning of the process.
For me, I have realized and accepted that I am GOING to get divorced, because we are just now getting to a place where I can try the 5-step plan, and the D is almost final. My goal is to become a better me, hopefully at least get my wife back as a friend, and see if there is a chance for more eventually. My point is that you shouldn’t freak if you have to sign papers. Find out what the wait time is where you live. In CA it is 6 months, and you can take them back any time in that time frame. So I would let the D begin, start the 5 step plan, and then see what you can do to get a reconciliation done before the finalization. Just my two cents.