Hello, me and my ex (both 22) broke up 2 weeks and a few days ago. We were together 4 years and lived together for 2. He came home one Friday night and said he had been unhappy for 2-3 weeks, he showed zero signs of being unhappy and never voiced anything other than one or two side comments about maybe being too young to marry.3 weeks before this he asked my parents and went ring shopping but freaked out. Within 24 hours he moved out into a new place. At first we were on a break then it went to fully broken up. He says he doesn’t want to give me false hope but he’s not sure if he wants to get back together or not. He says he has to work on himself and his inability to communicate before thinking about getting back together. We agreed on a month no contact. I’ve been really bad with calling him in the first few days I would call 3x a day. Then once a day for a few days. Then I went 3.5 days no contact. Then messed up and called him then for the 3 days after that I called him. Now I’m currently at 1 day and 23hours yes I’m counting the hours. A lot of things Hes done have made me feel like it’s final but then he says Hes unsure. We also agreed if we are fully done no chance either of us would call. Also I should add we broke up once before about 3 months in because he was scared about moving (we were long distance)
Hi @Jessie_Tofteland ,
I know no contact is very difficult when you love someone so much. But please continue it this time. For at least 30 days. You are going to be glad you did. And you would feel a lot better as time passes. Read my article on no contact if you haven’t already.