Hello , I will try and keep this as brie … just need some advice
Married for 18 yrs , together for 21 . He is the love of my life , we have 2 teenage kids .
I am very ambitious and career driven , love my family more than anything but did focus too much on my kids and career
He began an affair with his co worker and has now left me for her - he blamed me for our failed marriage. I saw it as an opportunity to restart our relationship, learn and grow but he was too obsessed with the other woman.
What can I do to start the process of recovering from the betrayal and work towards bringing him back home. My kids and I miss him… he feels he is happy and tells everyone we know how happy he is now … he and the other woman have bought a dog together but have not moved in … I need so much help .