Hi, please, I really need your help!
My boyfriend and I had 2 years together, our sex life wasn’t very good, since I denied to have sex with him sometimes and that was devastating for him. He broke up with me on June 10th, we have spoken like 4 times since, he is always really nice and wants to be in my life, he says he doesn’t want to throw 2 years to the garbage.
He has this hidden, even from his best friend, but I found out he has been seeing a girl, he has gone to the movies with her 3 times and is hanging out with her. I am afraid that he gets over me while I apply the no contact rule… that he gets more in love with her. I don’t know how long to pull the no contact through. Also he is leaving my country next year, I believe this also has something to do with the breakup, but he knows that it is on my possibilities to go where he is going too.
It is important to say that he always finds a new girlfriend really quick, when we got together he only had 4 months single and this is something normal for him. PLEASE HELP! I don’t want to lose him, I really want to change my sexual behaviour but I don’t know how to make him believe me I CAN change.
