He block me i don't know what to do

Breakup Help
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Hi, my name is Maeve, i am 42 years old and 2 days ago i was in a date with my new boyfriend. We meet at my place, he wanted to listen Avengers movies (i am not a huge fan). we were dating for 2 weeks and i fall asleep on the three tv show, he listen iron man, Thors and captain america…

i fall asleep some times to times thats why i remember what he was listening. We got closer, i mean very closer (but not to much intimate, we did not get to the act). Everything fell perfect and he ate at my house and that was the best of my life, big cuddle, wonderful kiss, love…i felt it so real…

he kiss good night and hug me before leaving. Once he arrive at his place, he told me goodnight my darling, see you tomorow night…

well…it was suppose to…

Yesterday morning…i awake with a message of him…at 8am…and it was no longer love…
here what he said:

*Hi, i will be honest with you, i am sorry, i do not feel it between us. I don’t want to play you so it is better if we stop it right now. Its not your fault i assure you. I am sorry again and i wish you good luck bye.

with that, he block me, he was no longer my lover on facebook and he was no longer in my friend list…

i got the chance (if i may say to text him on my friend facebook to ask him what was that about, at least we could have stay friend and he could at least make the effort to tell me face to face…

it was so cruel and unfair after all…i told me he was not an honnest person and that he did play me.

he just block my friend facebook

i know its weird but i do miss him and i really did love him but i can no longer get in touch with him i feel so bad…it was so immature from him to do that…

what should i do…is there still hope??*

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Hi Maeve,

I am sorry you are going through this but I don’t think there is much hope. Your relationship was very short and he was very honest about his feelings. I think he did the right thing by ending this now rather than later when you are more emotionally attached. It’s best to give up on him and move on.

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hi
thanks for your reply
I understand his feelings but why he did not have the courage to tell me face to face and why did he block me if i did not do anything wrong?

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Hi Maeve,

A lot of people have something called an avoidant attachment style. While there is a lot of psychological literature on this, what’s relevant to you is that they try to avoid confrontation and run away from uncomfortable situations.

Your ex may have some avoidant tendencies and decided that it’s better to just block and end it over text instead of confronting you.

Or he may have felt that two weeks is too short of a relationship and he does not need to end it face to face.

Lastly, he is different person and the way he sees societal norms maybe completely different than the way you see them. For all we know, he thinks he did the right thing by ending it via text and thought it was a clean way to breakup.

From everything you’ve said, I don’t think you did anything wrong in the relationship. You will have a tendency to overthink things as you loved him, but eventually you will come to accept that he just wasn’t that into you.

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maybe but i feel that he treats me like thrash…

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He came back for 17 days, saying he regret it and all
and today he try to quit without saying goodbye
he told me all these day that he love me and wants me
and promise me he would never leave me

all piece of crap…he escape today without saying goodbye while i was at work
what a jerk

at least i know i did my very best for him and was not worthy of my time