@LAbound how do you think my situation is now?
I really need some advice, encouragement and assurance right now
Sometimes there are really circumstances that cause plans to be cancelled. If you exude negativity, it will only become greater and greater. Just stay calm. Dont text him that. It comes off as needy and desperate. Just flow with it. In a few hours just hit him up woth something funny or witty. Lighthearted and non flirty.
I dont think cancelling is necessarily a bad sign. He couldve had diarrhea. It was a bad restroom day!
Seriously though,
He was consistent the past couple of weeks, right? It could just be he wants to really consider things. So keep hope.
I don’t want to come off desperate. I just thought since he told me he missed me and something my second chance that all my work was finally coming together and I was getting him back
And yes, the past couple weeks he has snapchatted me daily
Do you think I’m over thinking it all?
Maybe a bit. If he was doing the hot n cold thing, youd think he wouldve went cold at least a couple times by now. Just relax and take a hot bubble bath with some lavender salt. (Lol look at me) And get into a positive state. Heck, if he asked what you are up to, im sure a good response for any man is “Im taking a hot bubble bath” lol is that pervy? Sorry.
He has one time, And if I told him that, he’s probably ask to join lol
I guess I’m trying to rush things? I could use some advice and encouragement
My advice is to not contact him for a few hours. Then make lighthearted conversation where you dont flirt unless he does. It has to be his idea to get back together. Just stay focused on being positive and dont make deadly mistakes.
Youve got this. He has been consistent for a while, and Im sure that he wouldve been upfront if he wasnt ready. At least I hope.
Maybe he wasn’t ready to see me? I was surprised he started flirting with me. I was surprised he said he misses me
Or maybe something came up. Dont let this rule your day. Everything will be fine.
It just hurt me kind of, and after him saying he misses me and us flirting the other day
What makes me feel crappier is that almost everyone around me is getting engaged…I remember when him and I were talking about getting our own house. And we would’ve if we had the money. Sometimes I wish I never let my depression get out of hand and we’d still be together. I’ll never find anyone who is as weird as me again, I don’t want to find anyone else. I honestly feel that we are meant to be, we’re soulmates. I mean, we had a connection like no other. We clicked and it just felt so amazing. It felt so right.
We were deeply in love with other, we needed each other (he said he needed me first, I thought it was adorable). But we do.
I’ve just put so much work and effort into getting myself back together and him back. I know he still wants me deep down. I just don’t know what to do anymore…
I’m stuck, I need advice 
and encouragement
Anyone?
So he has snapchatted me again this morning…I didn’t reply. But I’m so stuck. I felt like I was getting so close and now I feel like Im far from getting him back. Advice and encouragement please!
Is it good thing or not? Why u didnt reply?
He just sent me a snapchat saying he got his uniform for his job, I’m still kind of upset about yesterday.
But I’m choosing to not talk to not talk to him for awhile. I want him to come to me, but I don’t entirely know how to him completely want me again. I just don’t know what to do now and I need advice and encouragement
I Dont understand. He already come to u. With sharing some news to u. He come to u first again. At least reply him until three text is good enough. The way u do it right now it seems like u missed the opportunity in front of u. Believe me. Most of women here need to hear and share some news from their ex bf. Rather than their ex shares with some other girls. I know u worked so hard but it takes time. Everything cant simply get it in one click. It needs step and one step. From what i understand about that time u didnt hang our with and he is being hot and cold, perhaps u need to check is there something wrong from your words that lead him to misunderstand? U said he was the one who want to hang out with u all day right? But u said to him that u guys no need to hang out all day right? Perhaps it will be thing that he a bit hurt. Because of that. I think its fine if u guys want to hang it all day. Its an opportunity that he was the one who want to hang out with u all day. If my ex bf asked me to hang out with him all day, i dont mind. I just go with the flow. But im not going to be so needy or rush. Just be myself. Be friends and if its getting close, its fine. Just go with the flow dear. And please, if he give u the opportunity, dont mess it. U still can contact him But keep it simple but fun. Just support him. He needs ur attention.
Talk to him. Why be upset?
I know you are eager and you got your hopes up. But remain positive and it will happen.
If you dont talk to him for a while, it will come off like a tantrum.
Reconciliation takes time. Go with the flow. Try to reschedule. If it happens again, have a conversation with him about where he stands.
He could be testing you to see if youve changed.