HAND WRITTEN LETTER

reconciliation
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What should be the concerns while writing letter to your ex after NC.
What should we write about?? and what are the things we should avoid.
Can please help me out with it? maybe in detail with example???
PLEASE…

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PLEASE SOMEBODY TELL ME

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SOMEBODY HELP :frowning:

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Google relationship rewind for an example- magic letter. You then need to determine if it applies to your situation.

Are you looking to apologize? Do you want him/her back?

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Quoted from Kevin’s email:

here is what you need to write in the letter
  • Agree with the breakup
  • Let them know that you think that you both need space
  • If you had been doing something new (something positive), let them know about it. This is to pique their curiosity and plant a happy image of you in their mind. Don’t lie about it, find something that you feel fortunate about. But don’t mention it in the letter. That is if they call back ( and there is a good chance they will) you must have something to say about that positive thing.
  • Apologize briefly, if you acted desperate, crazy or insecure during the breakup. KEEP IT BRIEF. NO MORE THAN 2-3 SENTENCES

For example,

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John,

Just wanted to drop off a short note to let you know that I am totally okay with your decision to split up.
Saw it coming for awhile.

I wanted to also let you know how sorry I am for acting like I did after the breakup. It was totally disrespectful to you. I apologize that I hurt you.

Oh! Some good news! I had a fantastic change in fortune and luck the other day. Funny timing…huh?

Love to fill you in…but in the future. You and I both need some space right now.

-Jane

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