So after doing the NC for a week with my ex boyfriend, he sent me this long text saying this:
Hey, I hope your week is going good.
Are you at home now?
I just wanted to let you know that if anything ever God forbid happened to you, I would feel like the emptiest person in the world.
You do mean a lot to me more than you think. I may get upset and I may get annoyed, but nothing seems to ever draw me completely away from you.
It’s like an instinct has overcome me and I cannot imagine my life without you.
And you’re right in that no one will ever treat me as well as you treat me.
Anything I have ever done or said to you is never hard feeling to you, but me one day hoping I can bring the best out of you just as I hope you can bring out the best out of me.
I would never ever trade what we had together even if I knew it wouldn’t last forever, because all good things must come to an end, even for people that are married. I will even admit I do miss kissing and hugging you. It’s a strange feeling, but it’s the truth.
I guess I wanted to just be your friend, because I was disappointed that we never got the opportunity to be great friends before lovers. I mean I never really got to experience what a friendship was like with a girl before.
Thats before I met you.
Even when I don’t text you, it’s more because I like face to face communication than other forms of communication.
I feel deep down I want you back.
nice, keep doing what your doing. definitely break no contact and text him from time to time. you know him better then any of us so you would know what works for you. good luck and keep us updated.
I posted what he said to me by text last week after not texting him a whole week prior to that. So we saw each other the whole entire weekend and what happened on friday night when we went out and out of nowhere we stared at each other smiling and then, we started to kiss and make out like we use to. He kissed me first, and we did that the entire weekend. He was hugging me tight and kissing all over my face and lips. So I’m assuming this is a sign that I might have my boyfriend back?
@aamls thank you and not yet but I will this weekend when I see him because I have a wedding to attend with him and his family.
@Sarahhlezy thank you and I will keep you posted when I see what happens next, so far it seems like he wants me back. Doing NC will do you good for the both of you, it depends on the person, for me it was a week surprisingly.
I promised you all to give you an update about me and my ex so here goes nothing. We attended a wedding in Pittsburgh this past weekend with his family and like I mentioned last time he started kissing me and hugging me like old times. I was kissing his face and neck and giving him massages (he loves his massages), and we had a blast and danced all night together. It was a long drive back and on the way back, we cuddled with each other in the backseat of his parents car. He slept on me and I slept on him and he was rubbing my face and everything. So I’m not sure if I’m one step closer in getting him back because if we want to be friends, then we certainly wouldn’t be kissing and all that stuff. Comments are appreciated
