Got a job where my Ex works.

Hey guys, thank you for taking the time to read this post. My ex broke up with me about a month ago. We broke up because it no longer felt like we were in a relationship. We saw each other very little and when we did see each other we didn’t act like we really loved each other. I can understand why she would not want to be in that kind of relationship but I want her back in order to get back into the good relationship that we once had that was filled with love, passion, and constant affection.

Unfortunately she told me that she may be becoming interested in someone else, a guy she works with and used to text when we were still together. Since then (about a week ago), I have found this website and have made no contact with her.

Here is my dilemma, my cousin works at the same place she does. They both work as receptionists and they love it. My cousin told me about a job opening with a schedule that would practically never involve me seeing my ex. Ever. But she found out I got the position and told a friend of ours, “If I had any feelings left for him, they are all gone now.” I think she thinks that I am trying to stalk her or be a creep. I did beg and come off needy the first two weeks after our break up.

The job is great by the way, they will allow me to work on my studies while on the clock and it pays better than the job I have now.I got the job as a way to better myself during the no contact period.

But how should I interpret her anger? Was it wrong to get a job at the same place she works even though her and I know that we will practically never see each other? Is it good that she is mad because she will think of me more or bad because she will develop greater negative feelings and push herself towards the new guy?

Oh my gosh. It’s very childish of her to be mad because of this, especially because that job won’t involve you and her having a contact. She should pull herself together and realise that the Earth isn’t spinning around her.

Ignore her comment and keep doing a good job. Congrats on that, btw.

It’s possible that she’ll come around. But in the meanwhile, stay out of her way to prove her that you didn’t take this job because of her. Once she sees that, she might feel slightly offended why you didn’t (although she appears angry).

Wait. Be patient.

Thank you all one. I appreciate the congratulations. I will follow your advice to stay out of her way to prove that taking this job was not so sort of strategy to gain her attention. Thank you for the motivation.