Quick facts: I’m 25, ex is 26, dated for 2,5 years and lived together for about 2… 7 years ago (yeah… I was 16 back then, but it’s legal where I come from, though unusual)… Super bad break-up… Lots of public yelling and stuff…
So… We started NC (not knowing it was a thing) kept it for two years… Then hooked up… And have been hooking up every two years since…
It took him moving to the other end of the island and some unusual events to get us talking… But for almost a year now, we’ve been talking every few weeks, and for the past few weeks, almost every day…
We’re done being mad, and talk about everything… And his just so darn wonderful!
His roomie is out of town for the next 3 months, and he asked me to visit for a few days, just for the fun of having me around… Because “I was never really able to shake the thought of you, everything in me still reacts to the mere thought of you”…
He then followed up with a note about this being strictly casual…
But now… I’m not sure about anything… He says he’s looking for a casual relationship(FWB) but he insinuated that he would like to go skiing with me… Asked if I would like to go sailing with him in the summer, and demanded that I would let him teach me how to sail his boat…
Everyrimw something good happens he text me… Or something bad… He was in a car accident last weekend, and texted me while in the ER…
We text all day in the weekends and most days after work and long into the night…
He is nothing like the kid I fell in love with almost 10 years ago, he’s better!
And I’m falling all over again(not that he knows)…
But I can’t wrap my mind around his mixed signals… Telling me it’s just a FWB relationship he’s hoping for, but including me in his life and wanting me to experience his new hobby…
I’ve asked him out for coffee, in an attempt to take things slow, and he agreed…
But I am lost on how to proceed and what to believe…
So here’s my question, what does he want from this?
And how do I go about this without getting my feelings hurt to much?
Thx in advance
(and sorry for spelling and grammar, English is my 4’th language)