My ex full-blocked me a day ago after we had an argument because I was too clingy and needed his attention when he needed alone time. I was in a really low point of my life (literally depressed) when I contacted him after giving him 4 days of alone time and he got annoyed with me. He looked like he was really done with me because I didn’t give him his alone time (hence the block) and I made a rookie mistake by contacting him in different sites (and I started getting blocked from Twitter, Instagram, even if I didn’t send a message there). We’ve been together for 2+ years and we have solved problems that were as big as this before. I’m really stopping myself from going to his home and do a mature apology because I know it would be another mistake and giving him only 3 or 4 days to process it would make things worse but here’s the thing. Texting wasn’t an option because I know that I’ve been blocked from that too so the only way I can communicate is through in person. The bad news is, his work schedule will change after next week and the only time I can meet him is through one of his day off next week (my friend has no idea what new schedule he will have later). I have already prepared an apology that doesn’t force him to comeback to me but instead recognizing the things I have did wrong in the relationship and opening an opportunity that we can be together in the future once we both heal and reach out. Is there a chance that this could work? Can you give me an advice on how I can get him back?
Apparently there were things he didn’t enjoy about your relationship and wanted time to think it over, but you didn’t give him enough time and came across as too clingy. He has blocked you and that means he doesn’t want to hear from you. Don’t go to his house as it will make you look pathetic and desperate. And don’t try to contact him before his work schedule changes… What do you mean by (my friend has no idea what new schedule he will have later)? Is this a mutual friend or his co-worker?
Didn’t you apologize already?
Go no contact for 30 days. If he reaches out to you, then you can give the apology. If he doesn’t contact you, reach out to him through your friend if you’re still blocked on everything.