okay, so,
i dated my ex for around 5 months, we used to talk & hang out a few times a week, be romantic, make brunch & dinner together, have sex sometimes. then we stopped being intimate & she starts pulling away so i ask her what’s up & she tells me her anxiety disorder keeps her from having the energy to be in a relationship. later she told me her anxiety disorder kept her from having deep FEELINGS for me. “i like you as a person” & so forth (terrible phrase to hear) so, i stopped talking to her pretty much starting no contact (but before i did that we did have a positive interaction)
then we don’t talk for a few days & she blows up my phone, which i ignore for the entire day until i check all the Snapchat private messages she sent me about how her Halloween day was going then i replied “Nice” THEN she tried to call me (which i missed because i was busy)
THEN i saw her later that night with some other dude & she was happy to see me & we hugged THREE long times because she was leaving since dude she was with was driving her home cus she was drunk & had to be up early (5 AM) which i believe that’s all that happened because she immediately checked all my Insta stories as soon as she got home.
should i continue No Contact or is it the time to reach out since it’s so fresh? i know it might be a strike against me to that I responded to her breadcrumbs about Halloween but we had such a positive interaction in real life, i don’t know which to believe.
Should i reach out & see if we can start to reconcile or is it a false flag & i should i continue No Contact until she blows up my phone again?
I’m hoping for a reconciliation in this case because the relationship was good & we had very fixable issues (some of it may have been lack of communication on my part)