It is 31 days NC today, but I am hesitant to proceed further as my ex is in a rebound. During NC he messaged me twice to say he loves me and when can we talk again; I didn’t reply; He is in another city, meeting this woman; it has all the symptoms of a rebound, but should I go for a date, etc. It will be no issue to communicate as he is eager; however I would not like to be used as support, but start a new healthy relationship with him. Any hints…
@goldenpolly - If you know for a fact that he is in a relationship with another woman, ignore him. Sounds like he is a jerk for contacting you behind her back. That’s a very bad character trait! Go out on dates with other guys and forget the ex as long as he’s with someone else.