Feelings coming back after 1 year of NC?

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Hey guys,

It’s been awhile since I’ve posted here so I’ll try to keep it short and sweet.

I’m 21 and my high school sweetheart of 5 years broke up with me about a year and a half ago. I tried what this website suggests, tried to get her back, it didn’t work, and I tried to move on.
It’s been a year since I’ve had any contact with her whatsoever.

A couple of months ago I felt I had really moved on from her so I started meeting new people and even went on a few dates. However, recently I’ve been thinking about her and missing her quite a bit and I have NO IDEA why.

I still have a caring for her but up until a few weeks ago it was in no way shape or for the same type of love I had for her when we were together. The strange part is, even though I have these feelings for her again I don’t think I would date her again if she approached me wanting that.

Sorry if the post was a little confusing but I would appreciate any responses.

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Hi Baseballguy1996, how are you?

It’s been awhile since we spoked here…

Man, sometimes i have a felling like you about my ex. Sometimes I think of my ex too and soon I throw those memories out of my head. It’s been a year since I finished my courtship and today it does not make sense to think about that past. Time is the best remedy and she’s probably happy with someone.
After the last time we talked here, I tried to change the routine, changed my job, met new people and today I am in a new relationship with a very nice person.

When my ex broke up with me, I thought the problem was me. It was my fault. But today I see that people are different and I am in a relationship that has more respect and maturity.

I’m writing here because I remembered you and so I want you to keep trying.

You are very young yet and you will have many many opportunities ahead.

Take care

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It happens. I miss mine today.