I Been with my gf for 3 yrs 10 months. Everything was good. Then 2 years ago i cheated. She forgave me and i told her i would make things better. I did a half ass job. Or thats wat she told me. We were together making plans for her bday that was on the 24th of Feb. On the 9th she told me she wanted to breakup i wasn’t treating her good showing her affection giving her her place as my gf and she was done. So i tought it was another one of our usual fights and goy off her car n left home. I called her 5 days later saying i could go with her to a gathering one of her fam members was having. She said mo and that she had made her decision of leaving me. I let a few days go and again i called her and said sorry and to get back together she again said she was done. I looked for her and she said she was done not being treated right and i cried n begged but nothing. I saw her dad and told me she wasn’t doing good and that she told them we were done. Her bday was the next day. So i went all out. Sent her flowers, bought her a gift, and made a big thing for her she loved it. She cried to my shoulder. She brought me in for dinner. When i was leaving she walked me out and said i hope you dont see this as a we’re back together and i said no just wanted to make your day special. on my way home she text me saying she wishes i had tried this hard when we were together. That she was letting me go cuz she didn’t know if i was her forever and maybe her forever is out there and she misses it by being with me. I didnt reply to her. The next day i texted her saying how i would change nut still she was stuck to im done pls accept it and move on. I tried convincing her but didn’t work out. She texted me saying my parents know i am done for real and im serious about leaving you. I didn’t reply to that and since then i started NC this was on FEB 26. It’s been hard doing NC but right now i feel hopeless. Where do you guys see me in? Any advice i would appreciate it. Thank you all.
Sorry but a lot of people don’t like Cheaters… But I know you made a mistake and you are really sorry about it. What about the ex maybe you two could hang out for a while if she isn’t into a commitment. U did enjoy being with her too. U seem confused about what you want. Date the other girl during your 30 days to keep your mind off things but just don’t be seen out with the other girl if possible
U don’t have to sleep with her! Or maybe u should try to involve yourself into something… for me I’m weak and I’m not doing the count down anymore. Maybe after 2 weeks u can write her a letter saying you’re sorry and mail it to her with your scent on it and ask her out on a date and have a specific plan of where to go.