I think that you did great in not responding since he did so much to hurt you. I’m not sure why he is so desperate to contact you though. Since me and my ex did not split on such bad terms, she did hope that I would ‘stick around in the future’ although she understands if I don’t. I can’t understand how anyone can get on with other people right after breaking up. I tried talking to other girls but it always ends the same way - me thinking of her
@ellie i am trying so hard not to think about him and believe me i am such a cry baby and i couldn’t even bear a single day without talking to him. I cry even when he doesn’t talk to me properly. But i didn’t cry a single time for a week now. I Have never been so strong.
But i still love him the same or may be more than ever but i dont know if he still wants to be with me or is he even missing me as much as i do. He hurt me so much but i guess it doesn’t matter to him now.
@divjun I believe we are all feeling the same way - we can’t bear a single say without them and it’s such a pain
@mj time will heal everything. I am at the end of day 13 and i am feeling much much better now. I am not saying that i dont miss him or dont want him back. Its just that i am uses to it. Also i know its the only way possible to make the situation better.
I am a person who is strictly againt nc after a fight. My ex and i started a new trend of not talking to on another after a fight. He used to ignore me and sometimes i ignored him. But righg now we are not together and he has become a different person who hurts me so much! Its the only way to make myself feel better and give him some time to think.
Nc is really helpful!
@divjun EXACTLY. Its like you’re slowly numb to the feeling. Just another day that went by without my ex.
@divjun You literally are describing perfectly right now. I was/am no different from you in that sense. However there is one difference, as of right now I cannot say I love him or want to be with him. It is obvious that I do love him because I am on this site, but I cannot love someone who screwed me over so bad. I know in the future I’ll admit that I care for him, but as of right now I am still in shock. Hang in there!
@mj yes… exactly… there is just a hope left and nothing else!!
@ellie
I know they hurt us so much but i cant stop myself thinking about me even if i am angry about what he did to me or i am still figuring our what possibly went wrong.
I dont know what to do anymore. What do you think.? You think he ll realise it all and come back to me? Or am i thinking so much and he isn’t feeling anything.?
@divjun I too hope that I’m not over thinking and that she’s fine without me. I just don’t want to be disappointed to whatever hope I have left.
@mj we all are in the same boat. We all are here to support eachother. Keep yourself busy thats all i can say!!
hi guys!
I’ve been feeling the same way lately.
For the last 2 weeks I haven’t cried once. I miss him a lot and wonder all the time if we’ll ever get back together. I’ve noticed that he’s been dropping hint here and there for me, but because I feel like I don’t know him anymore I am not going to react to them.
If he wants to speak to me then he can text me.
I don’t know if i’ll be able to keep the NC going once I get a message from him. I feel like he might get pissed if I don’t answer and that will just push him further away.
Even though his actions after the breakup are humiliating and painful, I’m not capable of hating him and making him suffer.
I believe that the influences around him have made him take this rash decisions, and that he is starting to notice that he’s not okay with them.
I know I shouldn’t be justifying his actions because he hasn’t cared about me at all, but I can’t help it.
Hey guys. Just had a dream of her sending me a sweet email. hahaha the only mails I got were from you guys LOL.
I decided to pick up the guitar again!
@Mj I hate those dreaded dreams! But at least you got us!
I’m so excited you picked up the guitar again!
@ellie96 time to serenade them girls LOL
@Mj haha I completely agree!!! 
Hey guys,
I didnt hear from him anything for past 2 days. I am on day 14 today.
I am getting this feeling that i might be forcing him into a relationship with me. He broke up because he wanted to be single. Now i am indirectly giving him no option but to be with me if he wants to talk to me.
No matter he hurt me so much but i am feeling guilty today:(
Hey @divjun. No choice but to wait and see 
I am feeling better during nc so i am going to keep doing this. But i am not sure if it will benefit my new relation with him or not!!
I’m feeling better today too. Just have the feeling that there’s something missing in my life.
The point of no contact is to better yourself! You need to not worry about him and everything! It only cause panic and pain! Trust me he will come back! Just focus on you right now! I know it’s hard but try your best not to think of him at all
@mj it will keep getting better day by day:)
@shelden i am getting better and strong but also i miss him more with each passing day. I know he is missing me too but not sure how much!
My friends say talk to him after a day or two else the situation is going to get worse. I dont know what to do. On the other hand i dont want to get hurt again.
Before starting nc i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he contacted me all the three days (just one call or a text). I told him the reason why i didn’t talk to him was because i didnt want to get hurt again.
I am so confused right now!