Hi!
I was wondering if you guys could tell me about false friendships. How do you establish them, how long do you stay in this phase, basically anything you know about a false friendship. I’ve never heard of the term until I started checking out these message boards. Thanks!
I honestly don’t know how long it should last or anything. But the point of it is that you tell you that you accept her/his choice, say something like you agree that it was the right thing to do in the long run and that you respect the fact it was a ahrd choice. Establish a false friendship so your ex can let their guard down and not worry about feeling emtoionally attachted to you essentially.
Okay, thanks! And from there you just kind of play by ear whether or not they still have feelings for you?
Where is the line then drawn between being a false friend and friend zoned?
That is a tricky question I personally don;t think you can ever truly be trapped there, if you feel it’s gone to far and there is no sort of relastionship development then maybe be clear, say you can’t handle being just friends and the time oyu spent together as friends has made realise that. That’s all I can really think of, then maybe do NC, if you really were good friends she will miss you and maybe come reconsider the relationship.
And yea I think it is up to your better judgement to determin all this stuff, give it time and if you have relastionship rewind follow the steps in that it is 3 seperate PDF documents which I used combined with this, just be careful about how you obtain it.
Thank you! That will make it easier when it comes to contacting him, I think.