My ex text me it started off okay then he said i have all the power.I said I don’t think so I have all the power over myself he just said I was deluded.what does that mean? He has already told me he doesn’t want me back and his life is so much better without me.I can’t work him out he has changed so much.I’m so confused and hurt please advise me on his thoughts and what i should do
hey @annxx your ex told you that because he knows he had all the power over you. if you want him to believe otherwise than prove it to him. Don’t answer to his texts, don’t talk about him period.
If he’s saying he can live without you then why the heck is he texting you?? he wants you to beg for him because men are like that.
Show him you are independent and that you sure as hell can live without him!
could you please read and comment on my thread? https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/undecided-ex/
Hi thanks for the reply…he is very stubborn and head strong…I’ve done the begging etc it didn’t work…but omg men might think they have the power but who would actually say it he is ment to be a grown man.I’ve decided as difficult as it is I’m just going to leave him be…i know he still loves me but as his life is so great and fun who am I to spoil that.the last 2half years obviously ment nothing to him and everything I’ve done ment nothing also.
Also what power. He doesn’t want me so why does he want power?
One minute he’s nice then horrible…
If he’s not interested then why doesn’t he just fotget about me? If life’s so much better then why does he take so much interest in me? Asking what I’m up to …then talking to me like I’m like one of his male friends its driving me crazy
i get it! they don’t want to be with us they do everything in their power to destroy our relationship, but don’t want to let us go. They still talk to each other, look for us, ask what we are doing and manipulate us! Its ridiculous.
please read my post its a bit long but i need advice asap!https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/undecided-ex/
Well the more I kept my distance the more mean he got towards me.telling me what he was doing even sending me pictures of of himself.saying he didn’t realise how rubbish life was with me until he left.he was becoming verbally abusive.literally had me on my knees with pain I’ve never experienced before.so I’ve cut all contact if I didnt I was going to have a breakdown.so now ill heal myself and move on
Goodness it sounds like he is tormenting you… That was very immature… He said that because he honestly believes he has more power over you. But he doesn’t! I wouldn’t talk to him at all. Don’t respond to anything whatsoever. Gain more power over yourself!
Answer mine my post about whether or not to go back to NC?