Im happy I can be a positive example to you.
This whole experience is a lesson. Not just for me but for everyone.
We are both on track to a happy future.
Im happy I can be a positive example to you.
This whole experience is a lesson. Not just for me but for everyone.
We are both on track to a happy future.
absolutely. definitely a learning process and we will both come out stronger from it! its great talking to people who can relate to my situation, since most of my friends have no idea how to advise me as they have never had such long and strong relationships
M ex messaged my sister today. āHey. I just wanted to say hello and see how you and the kids are doing. I hope all is well. How is your sister? I miss her like crazy.ā
Oh boy
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Its like I think about females so muchā¦im becoming one. Lol
Im kinda freaking out. Im at the gym and almost dropped a weight on my foot.
Shes never reached out to my sister before. ā¦I wasnt prepared for this.
wow!! maybe her new relationship is failing? how did your sister respond?
My sister said she wont mention me but she wants to respond. She doesnt want my ex thinking she hates her.
i think thats nice. if you do reconcile down the road, you donāt want her to think your family hates her.
Yeah. Well, the post where I said her new guy didnt want sex due to no sex drive or was indifferent about sex⦠I think thats why sheās hitting me up. She probably wants comfort and support and an ego boost.
Which is why I want to wait a long time. I dont want to be there because she feels like she needs me for that purpose but wants me because she realizes we were pretty fucking amazing together.
maybe she is on her way to realizing that!! i really am starting to believe in the law of attraction. my ex texted me for the first time since we broke up 3.5 months ago. this was the first time he initiated any type of conversation - before that he only responded to me. i think since Iāve been happier and more relaxed its really been helping!
Yeah. When she messaged my sister, I immediately thought of the law of attraction.
I need to work harder with it. Last couple of days have been rough. My sister kicked me out of her place because I had my cat⦠and now im using my cousins couch and still had to get rid of my cat. Iāve been kind of down.
Today though, Iām resetting my focus.
Did you respond to your ex?
youāll get it back. the whole process is good days and bad days! for whatever reason the last week i feel overall happier. canāt say what caused that.
i did respond to him. he reached out to discuss a tv show we both love. i thought about ignoring it but i donāt want him to think i donāt want to reconcile. our situations are different but differ in the fact that my ex isnāt in another relationship and also he hasnāt reached out once. i donāt think heās using me as an emotional crutch because he never texted before. he always answered me when i texted him but i always had to initiate. we text back and forth for a couple hours over small talk, nothing about the relationship. do you think this was the right move on my part? why do you think now, after 3.5 months he finally reached out first?
Cant say exactly why. If he keeps initiating contact, itās a good sign. And I dont think it is a bad thing that youve kept in touch and kept a false friendship type interaction. You kept pressure off of him and thatās whar makes the difference imo
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I agree. I wonāt initiate any conversations but Iāll just be friendly and low pressure if he reaches out. I wonder if he will againā¦I was so shocked getting a text from him last night after him not initiating once in 3.5 months
Haha yeah. I was in disbelief that my ex reached out to my sister. O_O
i think the law of attraction really is working for us both!
Lets hope it is and continues to do so.
Absolutely!
Okay. Im pretty sure she is still in a relationship or she has started seeing her first rebound.
Her first rebound she said she had no fucking idea what that was all about. And I havent heard anything else about her relationship but the only time she visits a particular city, its usually because of another guy.
The last few days ive been super negative. I am trying really hard to work with the universe and stuff but Im reverting in a way. Also, I have decided in six months I will be moving back to the same city where she lives. Not for her but to complete my schooling. I wanted to go to denver but I have to be smart about the path I take.
@ateaā¦you are so positive. Any words you can provide to well⦠comfort me. Lol sounds so needy.