Hi, here is my story in short. My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago had been together 8 months. About a week later she started to be with her old boyfriend how lives in another country, he went back home after about 2 weeks. When I asked about him she said she just wanted to hangout with him. We have been in contact a lot and she has send a lot of mixed signals, she has spend two nights at me place (we had sex the first time and would have had sex the second time but she got her period). The last night we talked about our relationship and she left told me she had to protect herself. After about 30 days of NC she sent me a email yesterday (we have always been in contact via message and phonecalls) with sub “Help”. She wanted me not to tell her old boyfriend that we had just had sex after he had gone back home if he contacted me, and that her life was falling apart. I just answered that I will/would never hurt her. She replied “Thanks, that means a lot…” (What does she means by that?). She later send a message (this time on WhatApp?) where she told me her old(new) boyfriend is hurt and wanted me to know that he knows that we had sex. Should i reply? If so what? Would like to tell her that I only care about her not about him. I still have strong feelings for her and want her back.
Wonder if she told the guy about the sex. If she calls or messages again, let her know you don’t want any contact until she breaks up with the other guy! I’m sure she knows how you feel, but she sounds really messed up and confused. You deserve better treatment. Don’t settle for breadcrumbs…