Okay! You have to first of all sort out if your ex is dating this new girl or not. If yes, you should elongate NC. If he insist on calling you, tell him that you need more time to deal this drama. Be rough to him.
Try not to figure out those many info about what you ex is doing. it really hurts. Simply focus on your own life. I believe he has already started fearing losing you forever. Let it get intensified. I hope that he did not try to string you around by saying those words. Anyway, You are the most important person here, so care about yourself!
Well, accept it with a delay of 2-3 days! Lets be a bit rough on him! Your NC is almost over jes! Now you can act like someone who is doing efforts in getting him back! Make him take initiative but don’t assure him of anything!!
I did accept his request aftet 3 days !! He called me the next morning saying that he wanted to meet me . i had asked him to come during my lunch break . but he said that he wants to talk to me propperly witout any rush.
He camr home i acted cool. Later he said that he still loves me and this one month made hom realised it.
He said thay he doea not love this girl. Me nagging him so much after the breakup led him to start dating her. Now he says that he cant lie to her anymore. He wants yo break up . je said that he did not give any hopes to this girl. He had made things clear that he will not be able yo give his 100% to her. He kept taking my name in front of her .
He had also told thos girl that hes coming to meet me and that she leaves him alone.
He yold me that all the texting , calling and the mesaages that he sent me was trying to get in touvh with me. He could never forget me. He said that he still loves me and would want to come back.
He asked me if he comes back to me if i will take him. I said yes. Did i do something wrong? I could see that he was so happy!!! I could really sense that he still loves me.
I told him clearly that if he wants me i wouldnt want any chapter of that girl anymore.
He said that he broke with her.but it will take time to settle thinga properly.
But yestetday i called him . he is like i want to be in a relationship but not the way like we were before . He wants everything new. Hes like its better that we know each other better!! He just wants peace of mind and wants to be lefy alone when he wants to ! Why is he setting all these rules .? Please do let me know what i need to do .? How should i react to him when he says that dont ask me for a time frame for breaking up with her completelt!
Please help me out!! Now hes saying that he had come to me as a friend to share his feelings! He said he just wantd to know if ill come back to him if he wantd me.
It seems He loves me but does not want to tag the relationship. The other girl also asked for a chance and she is ready if in this process he leaves and comes to me.pleasree help me out.
I told him if he had come to me as a friend he should continue with this girl only.
Pleaseeeeee help me outtttt!! Asap. Since he is coming today to see mg pup. Please hlp me out!!
Your NC is almost over jes! Now you can act like someone who is doing efforts in getting him back! Make him take initiative but don’t assure him of anything!!