I have made a different thread on reconciliation. But this is a breif over view for those who don’t want to read full story.
•I became insecure / took her granted/ became unattractive
•this lead to her breaking up with me
• i pleaded begged etc
•used nc worked on my self and got her back
• we were more in love that before
• month later we start arguing well me over stupid things
• i over react over small things
• started dealing with family problems which i didnt tell her about and took it out on her
• made her unhappy took her for granted again and pushed her away which lead to break up 2
• i became more insecure went on her facebook accused her of cheating when she didn’t
• next day i apologise she said she forgives me
• she deletes and blocks me on every social media site
Do i have any chance at all. Alot of people say move on but i didnt come here to get that answer even though it could be the inevitable i know that. I know i need to work on my self before even attempting to try to contact her
But when i do fix my self which i know a 100% i will cause i am capable of anything I set my mind to. What do i do then? How do i approach to contact her? We’ve been going out for just over a year. We got back together 2weeks before anniversary. How do i win the girl i have so much respect and love for back. I know i don’t need her. I want her. She was my best friend and my lover. I got insecure and trust went out the window. Romance died which lead to no intimacy and now no girl. I know she’s hurt. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.