does no contact work?

Hey kevin
I had a breakup wid my girlfriend 2 months ago but still we wer takking till one and half month and always we did fights only sometime i said her manythings…which i should not have said that butt then i read your article and i stopped talking to her and now the situation is that she dont want to listen anythng about me not even my name…now i am worried …plsss sugeest me what to do
Thank you

How long were you together? Continue no contact so she can calm down and remember more of the good things in the relationship. In the meantime try to understand why she broke up with you and try to improve yourself in those areas…

Thankyou @patricia12 for giving me your precious time or good advise :slight_smile:
I know her since one year but 5 months ago we came in relationship and we were together till 3 moths …but now the situation is that if any1 talks to her wid my topic she get annoyed …she is like now its high time idc about him… i dnt want to listen his name and she even blocked me from.everywhere .but she still talk to my brother and sister but she always tell them dont take out the topic of me i agreed that we had big fight but still now the things going on making me worry … pls help me more

The only way you’ll see if No Contact works is if you go No Contact.

Stop texting and reaching out.

No Contact has worked for me.

17 days ago i stoped talking to her …but still she has negative wibes towards me…