I recently read some articles that stats that if your girlfriend broke up with you and you do No Contact that it actually does not work.
Is this true? I’m confused as to why a lot of articles say this and if so, what should the strategy be for then. A lot were saying that it only pushes them away and makes them get over you faster.
Also, does it make sense to do no contact if you ex could potentially be talking to another guy? Don’t you kind of want to start it sooner so you can prove that you have changed.
I can say from experience that this it works with women. Years ago I got a divorce. I begged and pleaded for her not to leave and it did nothing. After a year of not talking to her at all (no intentional no contact, it just happened), we reconnected. If there was a possibility of getting back together, it would have been then, but I was moved on. We’re still friends and I get the vibe that she at least thinks about it sometimes
And in my current situation, I know full well she’s thinking of me for reasons I’m going to post in my own thread
No contact won’t make a difference to anyone who hopes to reconcile. It won’t help except to allow people to understand the reasons for the breakup and think of ways to improve themselves and possible ways to make things better in the future.
Change takes time and if someone wants to be with someone else, they will do it.