Hello,
My ex broke up with me on May 31, the only thing he said was that he needed space. The day before we kinda had a break and then he regretted it and we immediately got back together & I was so emotionally drained from that that I left. I take it that he’s confused honestly. He keeps telling me that I’m amazing & the best girlfriend he’s ever had & it was “the best year, 4 months and 16 days of his life. we did have a little disagreement about me hanging out with his mom, which he wanted, that day before but I had so much going through my mind about being gone for so long that I said I probably couldn’t which I explained was so I could change my mind later if I had the time without giving false hope. Maybe I should’ve just said yes. Though sometimes I feel like this is a cover-up considering he didn’t want to see or speak to me at all. He did say he felt that God was telling him to leave me for a long time & I’m religious too and all but I just don’t believe that, I believe though, that God told me to be patient to be with him. He said he was still trying to understand it and that I know what I mean to him but like??? I don’t get why it was so hard for him to see me.
Later I asked if we could talk and he made it clear he didn’t want to see me honestly (he was really rude to me considering we live in different cities and I was going to be in his city for a month and he broke up with me Day 2 leaving me with no transportation or contacts in the city). I saw him once (I went out of my way) and it was fine then he slowly went back to being cold towards me. Anyways, I did spam him (regrets),& I did get blocked. I was always kind though, I think my fam might have said some mean things though but I’m honestly not sure. I tried NC but broke it about a week later to “elephant in the room”, he responded. I texted him again a couple days later, he responded, faster I might add. I tried on the 17th today with a question, no response. Am I confusing him & why wouldn’t he want to talk to me? Perhaps he needs to learn to face problems on his own besides hiding behind his mom? Should I try NC again? Is it ever too late considering it’s been a month and a half? And, if so, how long should NC last this time?
Might I add, we’re in college so we were together since April the couple months he was here, I told him I’d stay with him if he left, (which made him think I was the one¿) & he went to school back home for the summer and school year. We would visit each other, once a month usually and in 1 month he’ll be back in my city, at the same school so I’ll actually see him. It’ll also be my birthday in a little under a month if that adds anything.