So my ex and I split in March and at first it was ok… by that, I meant it hadn’t sunk in. It didn’t sink in until May but by that time, he’d found someone else. He’s been with her ever since. I hate it.
At first tho, he would still talk to me (behind her back) until he started acting out and I decided to keep my distance. I didn’t speak to him for a month and a half. He started telling me that he was confused. He cared for this girl and made a commitment but I was what he was looking for but this girl was also so good to him, too. After a small chat, he came to a decision that he was going to leave her. He originally said for me but I didn’t want to eat my hopes up. After he split from her, he told me he felt like he’d made a mistake but wanted to focus on himself for a bit. Then next thing I know, a day later, they’re back together and he told me that the pain of almost losing her made him realise he’s completely over me.
I’m not sure how I feel… It hurts. Do you think he’s really over me? Do I really have no chance with him now? I have gone back to not speaking to him again but he’s blocked me on absolutely everything and idk what I should do. I still want him back but he seems to be over me and loves someone else already… Did I mess up? Do I have no chance anymore?
Btw I didn’t ask for him back or anything, the time I spent away from him, I’d used to focus on myself. I’m going to keep doing that. It just hurts to feel like he’s really over me.