I’m doing the NC and I didn’t wish my ex a happy bday. He wrote it on fb (that i didn’t wish him a hbd).
Today is day 6. I haven’t said anything, is he upset? He hasn’t tried reaching out to me (and Yes, he dumped me).
I’m doing the NC and I didn’t wish my ex a happy bday. He wrote it on fb (that i didn’t wish him a hbd).
Today is day 6. I haven’t said anything, is he upset? He hasn’t tried reaching out to me (and Yes, he dumped me).
Im in a similar situation or could be my ex has her bday this weekend she left me but im wondering what she might do or say
Are you going to wish her a hbd? How long have you been on the NC?
No im not going to and not long but we were on off for a month till a new guy came into the picture now shes been seeing him for a month a few friends think its a rebound so I have ignored her completely blocked her on everything but theres been signs she has
Feelings for me time will tell
That’s good to not wish her one (it sounds like she doesn’t deserve it anyway!).
It definitely sounds like a rebound 1 month is too soon to start actively dating after being in a relationship (i’m sure it wont last and im sure she misses you!).
Stay Strong
Thanks newme15 thankyou im taking my time to improve myself and i will but i think in your situation i think he does have feelings for you too if he didnt he wouldnt have said anything trust me im a bloke
He dumps you. Then makes a big deal out of not wishing him a happy birthday? He should of expected that. I wouldn’t be worried if he’s upset. If he is, its a good thing. If there were no feelings for you, he wouldn’t care about you not wishing him a happy birthday.
Johnboy439, no problem. Thank you keep up the great work. KPowers1192, Yes you’re right i honestly DONT understand how he could of expected that. As hard as it is, I’m still sticking to my 30 days. I want him back but not the way he was before he broke up with me.