She came and got all her stuff but left some behind and she acted all happy and kept giving me hugs and sat by me and she said I love you and the last time I hugged her she wanted me to pick her up! But I’m confused! Is she moving on?
I wouldn’t say she was moving on. Why did she leave some ofher stuff behind?
I would try and relax about the situation. she seems like she might want to get back together, or do u think she was being just friendly?
I think she was just being friendly but idk
I don’t understand why she would leave stuff behind. Only explanation is because it’s another reason to pop by and see u stay strong mate. Im sure in 1 or 2 months time we will both be in a better place
Man I don’t even know anymore! I feel as if she’s really through with me! Yeah she wants to be friends but I can’t do that! That’s too much! So any update on you and your girl?
I might have made a big mistake. This Sunday is Chinese new year and there having celebrations in town. So knowing she would enjoy it. I’ve txt to ask if she fancys going for the day watching the parade and the fireworks finale. I know that she will say no but I had to ask. Since we’re meating up next Wednesday for me to give her the rest of her stuff. I thought why not contact her. I’m starting no contact after our final meeting. If she says yes to going to the celebrations on Sunday. Maybe there will be a chance after all.
Mate I feel for u. What’s your plans? Keep contact or no contact for a bit ?
I’m gonna really go through with the no contact and everything and if it doesn’t work then I know my answer!
I feel for u dude, nothing worse. I’m starting to regret asking her now. If she says no I’ll be so upset
Exactly man it’s like they are playing games with us and not seeing how bad they are hurting us
Yep thought it was a bad idea, she said she’s working
Hmm well that’s not that bad if she’s actually working! Man this is rough!
To be honest I’m not sure if she is working. After I txt back to say no problem she txt me “Thanks that’s thoughtful but it’s not really appropriate either considering the situation…sorry x” think I’m pushing my luck. Starting to doubt she’ll never take me back
I don’t believe for a second that she doesn’t love me anymore no one could change that quick, I just want to know if I have a chance but I don’t won’t to ask incase I blow it
I would just give it time man! She will understand in the end! And if not then atleast you know you loved her and was willing to give her a second chance and she will regret it in the long run!
Everyday is different one day I’m positive the next I’m down again. I want to ask her if I have any chance of winning her back but that could blow up in my face and I could lose her forever. She can be stubborn so she might never let me back in. I know if we spend time together again I can win her heart back.
That’s why I say give it time man. My ex is super stubborn just like me. I guess I really taught her that way but it takes time to heal. If she really loves you then she will come back. Don’t ask her if you guys have another chance or anything like that cause that will just push her away. Make her realize that she wants to be with you. I’m the same way and think I’ll never get her back but if I could show her I could win her back but I’m not gonna do that. Think about it. They broke up with us. We can do everything in our power to get them back but it’s their decision. I know it sucks man cause I’ll be a great mood one day and then be sad the next too. Just give it time and have faith.
I’m feeling weak today and just txt her this
I was hoping that you kept them because, there was maybe a chance we could work things out. There’s still a part of me wondering if we can work things out. I know your hurt, I realise that I’ve been stupid. You should know that I would do anything to make you happy hannah, I believe we came together for a reason x
I’m regretting sending it now
it’s BEST to keep the NC rule no matter what.
even if you’re dying inside, you have to keep it up.
it’s THAT crucial.
Will it work though or will she just forget and move on.
this may not be what you want to hear, but there is always a chance that she might move on. BUT, if you keep up Kevin’s guideline you will definitely INCREASE the chance of getting her back. You have to be strong first for all this to work. Trust me, me and my ex were on and off for 4-5 years and my patience ALWAYS wins out.
MAINTAIN NO CONTACT. you HAVE to.