I started no contact officially a week ago, although it was low contact before that and last week he said he loved me. Then he just left to spend 5 weeks overseas
I don’t know if it’s the no contact or social media, the disgusting thought of him whoring around on his solo trip or the fact that I’m improving and he’ll still be the same person; but I’m not sure I want him back anymore.
I’m confident he’ll regret his decision, and I’m sure I’d be hung up on him if we were still talking and I still had him on facebook… But it’s weird because I honestly thought we were meant to be together forever, and because he stupidly let me go, now I’m not sure id consider taking him back.
Honestly the fact that I’m being mature and him with the encouragement of his friends will be sleeping around with dirty people is probably the biggest turn off. Does anyone else feel like this?
And not sure how I’ll feel when I see and talk to him in 5 or so weeks (if I even do)
On another note, going on a date actually helps a lot too. I met the hottest guy, he was only in town for the weekend but hanging out with someone else attractive made the future seem much brighter haha
It sounds like you are well on your way to being over him. I’m sure there will still be feelings there, but it sounds like you have healed a lot.
I feel the same. Completely! My ex is also out of the country and hanging out with his stupid immature friends. It’s a total turn off to me, not just knowing he will probably sleep around, but just the immaturity all together and that he would listen to what his friends say. He’s much older than his friends too, which makes it worse in my eyes.
I feel like my ex is an idiot to let me go, haha. I feel too that he will eventually regret and it won’t surprise me if he comes crawling back. Too much immaturity and stupidity doesn’t make me see him as a man.
I’m glad im not weird and someone feels the same.
Clearly our exes don’t realise how lucky they were lol, but I have no doubt they’ll regret it if not already.
Part of me hopes he’ll say he made a big mistake and has changed and grown up etc, but I think he knows he lost a great thing already, but won’t grow up on time for any action he takes.
Since I told him I refused to be friends with him (aka his plan b) he hasn’t contacted me. So I can only assume he’s upset or doesn’t care. Sigh.
Meeting new people is hard! But I’m going really well in all other areas