How do you carry out a no contact with having two kids involved and need to see each other to exchange custody and have to text or call about them … I hear about this space from her and she needs to focus on her and the kids and I want her to do that and miss me at the same time but still have to be in contact with her she tells me you never know if we will ever get back together but I know it’s not going to be Anytime soon and I’m not focused on what happened to us please help
@Harris - Whenever you need to see her, text, or call about the kids, be polite, but don’t talk about anything else if it can be avoided. I don’t know what went wrong in your marriage or relationship, but apparently it was bad enough to cause a split. Think about your part in the break up and remedy those things. I hate to say this, but she might be relieved to be away from you, but over time she will think more of the good memories and less of the negative stuff and probably start to miss you. Over time if there’s improvement she can see for herself, she might reconsider.
She wants space, so give it to her while you work on yourself…