Hello everyone, sorry if this is a long post,
My ex broke up with me 8 days ago. The reason was that she really wanted space for herself , she went too fast in our relationship. She got a relationship with me shortly after her ex. She told me she really wanted to be single right now and that she isn’t sure if it will work out in the future.
We had a relationship for around 5 to 6 months, and we were also living together for around 4 months. This is also one of the reasons why it went too fast. She even moved work places just to live with me, so that her work was also in my hometown. She really wants to go back to her old work place and this will be arranged at the latest of the 10th of November.
Since she still works here for a few weeks, she still has her stuff in bags over at my place and will likely come back after next week when her holiday is over, because she still works in my hometown for a few weeks. After that she will really leave.
We left on good terms and I didn’t beg or pleade all that much, I told her I respect her choice and the breakup. She also told me to not wait for her, because she doesn’t want to give me false hope.
Although she doesn’t have a good connection with her parents, not in the slightest. And I believe that she will have problems with that again and regret her decision.
When she left yesterday she gave me a really big hug and didn’t want to let go for a while. That was something Nice I Guess.
The only thing that is worrying me right now is something she told me. She said exactly this: “I’ve got to be really honest with you because I don’t like to lie, next week I will be sleeping at another guy’s house because it’s more practical to be in the area for photography, or else I have to travel A LOT. I will NOT have sex with him, I know him barely, plus I don’t like his looks. I will NOT sleep in his room, I will just sleep on the couch.”
The problem is that I once in our relationship saw a whatsapp conversation between them about hugging. I convronted her with it and she said that it was just a normal conversation about hugging, not about hugging eachother.
I know that my ex has always been really honest, so I hope she is speeking the truth about this.
I am applying NC at the moment so one day has gone by of course because I saw her yesterday in the morning. The last week I also didn’t initiate contact but she did a few times. Just about practical thing really. I just answer casual and don’t continue the conversation. Today she did it again about something she forgot for the week. Again I answered casual and didn’t continue after that. So I hope I’m still doing NC right.
But after this long message, do you guys think I still have a chance of getting her back? And what would be the best strategy? Please let me know!