Hello. I would like some advice about my break up. I broke up three months ago with my bf after three years. Our realtionship wasnt like a fairytale, it had mamy arguments but so many lovely days too. I loved him like i never did before. He was my everything. Although he was younger, i am 24 he is 21. In our realtiosonhip the thing is that i had more feelings than them. It was a fact, he admitted that he does have feelings but not as much as i did. That means i did so much effort to keep this realtionship. I did mistakes too, dveryone does anyways. But he did too, and unfortunately big ones but i always forgived snything because i loved him. The last three months were horrible. He was always finding excuses to not see each other, avoiding me constantly. We were hust sendjng some texts and thats it. He was very jealous and he was always controlling me and wanting to know everything about my life. He kept telling me that if he finds something we will break up. And he did. Just a text from a friend thar was a year ago and i didnt even answer. He said i kept it secret etc. He left me like this. He said he love me but its over. After that three months now i am begging him like crazy. I am a mess. He is leaving his life like nothing moatters he keeps ignoring me he doesnt answer my texts and when he does he is so mean. He says to leave him alone that he is getting over me and he is better now without me and he doesnt even miss me. I am so depressed. He was always saying that noone loves him like i do or cares for him like i care. He knew that still he left me with a stupid excuse. I did almost everything for him. I was always there for him even though he wasnt when i needed him and did so many efforts to keep this relationship. The thing is that he broke up with me another 5 times and came back after a month or 2 months but now hes gone. I love him so much. I know i begged so much and probably pushed him away but how can he be that cool with our break up and why hs seems so much happier without me. Is there any chance that he is gonna regret it someday? I love him so much…
Love is not enough. Sounds like you two are incompatible and he’s immature. He doesn’t want contact with you, so take some time to grieve and then start dating older guys when you feel ready…