I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 yrs last march because i wasnt happy. i tried to break up with him many times, but i never could. He always came back sayingdont be crazy baby then I apologize. I asked him to go see other girls but i never stopped saying i love u or i miss u. we’ve been texting and talking ever since but in August he started talking to another girl. I begged him to get back. How can he forget about his girlfriend of 7 years for a girl he just met? and what can i do to win him back? I still love him and I know he still loves me too 
Are you sure you want him back? I think you should just ask him to get back. Calmly and flirt a little. Don’t beg. See what happens.
I just did this last weekend, I tried everything. I even cried. But I guess he told this girl all our relationship weaknesses and now she is using then against us to win him.
He decided last week to give our relationship a chance and he told her and they stopped talking. Then she texted him and went to his place the same day and they kissed
They next day he told me NO ITS NOT GOING TO WORK and he also told me that he misses her and he thinks of her.
But he also told me he misses me and he still loves me. And everytime i tell him dont do this to me, he tells me you did to me in march. I was hurt the same as you are right now
what to do to get back with him? I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
time will tell. i know it hurts but if what you had means so much to him (7 years is a long time to tolerate someone you dont love, so im sure he loves you!) you have to give it space. im in a similar problem were when my ex left me, she went back to her ex before me. dunno if its just as friends or what but it hurts like hell. i can only hope the stuff she told me about him is still true and that he isnt a good person.
could you read my situation and give me some advice please?
https://www.forum.exbackpermanently.com/boards/topic/so-i-broke-no-contact/
My boyfriend thinks that i’ll go back to my ex before him who i broke up with 16 yrs ago.
I love my boyfriend so much. I told him I want to be happy with him only him not any other guy. I keep texting like crazy every single day
Today I started the NC. I’m dying. I miss him like crazy. Even though I have another guy wants to be with me but all i can think of is my boyfriend. How come I feel like i’m cheating on him if i talk to any other guy and he is with this girl and he doesn’t feel the same? How can he forget me after 7 yrs to be with a girl he just met??
Ok. I know this is very emotional, but you have a remain calm and collected when you talk to him. Light and breezy even. I know that that is almost impossible, but it really is the best way.
Give him some space. Have you don’t any NC? If not, do some NC. Then send him a light breezy text message. Oh, and you will need to talk about positive things happening in your life.
never tried the NC, but i just stared today. and its killing me
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. and i’m sure he does too but he is being so stubborn. I KNOW I HURT HIM BAD. But now i’m serious about trying
Like sunshine said … you should try the Nc … he used to have you in his life for 7 years … and i thing if you stopped calling him he’ll notice that immediately … and he hopefully realise how much he loves you … and wants you back 
I’ll try the NC But its killing me that i know he might be with this girl, not knowing what they r doing together 
I know it hurts … i keep having a thought that my ex is with other girls …
And it kills me!!
But i hope this may be a rebound relationship … and once he realise that you’re gone … he’ll start missing you …
You have nothing to lose … right?
yes there is nothing to lose more
Dont be sad … i know it hurts … but we are all here to help each other … and alot of people here have had a relationship rewind … and got thier exs back… so keep your hopes up ^^
And …
could you give me any advice on my story plz?
I’d like to hear your opinion …
^^
Its been two days with about talking or texting and i’m dying and its killing me even more that he doesn’t miss me and he is with another woman