My girl and I were or are both sober in recovery. I went out and took her to capacity trying to help me get sober with my AA friends. We got together on 12/19/25 and broke it off right after that as she thought wanting the right action. There is zero contact now but on 1/19/26 we talked via email as I am blocked via cell. She said she tried to do everything for me and said she is going to find a best friend that will grow with her and push her to be better and said I didn’t do it. Then went in saying things I did and in capital letters said blah blah blah and also said I’m moving on.
We talked more via email that night and all she said was f* you a in many emails. And I’m blocking this email address; and then finally said, you left treatment early and have no desire to change. I then said I’m done. And leave me alone. I ended up going to treatment and just got out. Sent her my treatment plan in theMail and nothing begging. Then at the end sent my after care, a trauma book I read birthday card and my aftercare. Still nothing begging. I’m in love with her and just need advice. Everyone tells me at 56 she wouldn’t have even responded to emails if she didn’t
Love me and was done
Or even say f*ck you. Any thoughts. I lived here and am now working on myself.