Guys… update :
He texted me again and it was a bit rude.
“I wanna talk to you . atleast listen. Should I keep chasing you? Am I a dog?”
My intention tells me to keep up with the NC.
I guess he is angry, cause you’re ignoring him but that is the same way you felt in the first place… right? If you don’t answer him, it’ll drive him crazy and he can’t stop thinking about you.
Well I really want to know what does he want to talk to you 
Yeah I think maintaining NC would be my best shot right now.
He is just missing me I can feel that. But if he wanted to get back with me, he could have simply apologised to me for his actions.
Last time also he tricked me to talk to him. To talk as if nothing happened. I am not falling for his traps this time.
Good job! Good work girl! I’m proud of you! and happy for you you have him chasing you. Keep up the NC be strong.
My ex still hasn’t tried contacting me don’t think he will honestly.
@leslie
Mine hasn’t either I don’t think he will 
it’s so hard because both of our ex’s have someone else I think that means they don’t have the chance to miss us 
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im so excited for you. keep doing what your doing. btw(my husband never called back or came looking for me yesterday. or hasnt called me today. but whatever,lol,I must stay strong) keep it up. @DarkHeart dont give up like divju said.
@leslie , @darkheart , @aamls
He was sounding rude like he was very angry. This is the first tym he contacted me after our anniversary.
I just need him to chase me more and value me. And should feel sorry for the way he treated me.
And darkheart and leslie if he isn’t contacting you that doesnt mean nothing is going in his head. We all are missing our ex but still not contacting them.
I ll just stick to NC untill he tries something more than this. I hope I am doing the right thing.
hes probably mad. when I was in the first round of no contact my husband was acting angry towards me. then he stopped contacting me. just continue doing you and improving yourself for you. your right he has to learn to value you more then what hes thinking. let him deal with his angry outburst. @DarkHeart and @leslie just follow the plan and if they dont contact you, then you contact them after the no contact phase. good luck. @divjun keep doing what your doing.
Thanks aamls I really appreciate that. Good luck to all
Hey guys,
Its the end of day 9 of nc and here comes the day 10.
I didnt reply to his text but idk why but I’m getting this feeling that he is pissed off and angry that I am ignoring him and making him chase me.
He always chased me because he always did something wrong.lol
But this time I think he is not going to try more knowing he really did hurt me.
Its 1am here and didn’t get any text after that.
sigh
stay strong, you can do this. he needs to understand he did wrong. your doing good. let him deal with his own anger problems. my husband has them as well. lol. it’ll pass and he will continue looking for you, you got this. keep doing you.
I hope so.
I ll stick to NC and try to get my head off him.
You too are doing great.
You know last time when we talked when I broke my 1st NC, he showed me a screenshot in which I noticed he had saved my number with “S”. I asked him why did he save my number with a S?. He told me S stands for soulmate. And again said that earlier(after break up only) it was W and W stands for wife.
It made me smile
those are good signs hes showing keep it up, seems like hes closer then what you think. your doing really well. Im so happy for you.
It was before starting second round of Nc. I m feeling like he wont try again and he is really angry.
M afraid if he wont reach for me what am I gonna do
stay strong your doing really well. his anger will calm down and then he may look for you. remain no contact till then. your doing great.
Yeah I am trying my best. I have my exams next month. I have to prepare for thwm as well.
I just hope he understands why im notvtalking to him and take the responsibility of his actions.
you should let him know as to why your not talking to him maybe then he’ll realize as to why. also yes focus on that. your doing great.
Well last time(10 days ago) we fought again because he was not accepting his mistake and not apologising to me. I told him that I dont expect anything from him.
So I think he knows why I am not talking to him. And telling him why I am not talking to him would result in breaking the NC again.