Briefly breaking NC to ask how they’re doing during the pandemic

reconciliation
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Hello all,

I’ve failed a few times at NC, and I’ve restarted (a little over 2 weeks now). But I want to reach out to make sure they’re doing ok during this. But it’s not just them I want to ask about. I want to make sure their family is doing well also. Do you think it’s a good idea to break NC and ask?

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@bob.gray27 Yes, you could break NC since it’s been 2 weeks. But don’t ramble on and on. Just check about how everyone is doing and don’t contact everyday…

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I’m struggling with this too. I’m getting messages asking “are you okay”, “it must be hard being alone” etc etc and I don’t want to be rude. I’m worried it will set me off on a spiral over obsessing over his messages again and hoping he will want me back. At the same time I don’t want to make him angry and think I am an uncaring and awful person. :frowning: