Hello everyone, I am really struggling right now with no contact. I am going on 23 days of no contact today and it keeps getting harder and harder. My ex boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me over the phone after an argument we had. He broke up with me on a Friday and I begged him until Sunday and then I decided to cut off all contact in hopes of getting him back. My roommate is his cousin and he normally doesn’t contact her much but lately he has been contacting her to talk about there family problems (which he has never wanted to talk about before the break up) and now he started asking her boyfriend to go play golf and all these things when he never did that our whole relationship. He doesn’t really have any friends to talk to or hangout with so I didn’t know if this corona lock down was making him really think about our relationship. I feel like the no contact is working but then again I keep losing hope that he will ever come back. I’m trying so hard. Do you think it is working? I promised myself after 30 days I would reach out but I don’t know if he will ignore me. Any advice? Please I’m losing hope and I still love him.
@mmm13 I wrote a reply to your other post regarding 23 days no contact. The no contact is to give him space and time to miss you. Actually it would be better to wait longer than 30 days (which is up in another week) to see if he initiates contact first. But if you really need or want your things back, text him and ask about how to manage it. Nobody knows if he will ignore you or not, but it’s okay to take the chance of reaching out
It’s difficult to say whether or not no contact is working or will work. All you can do is make any changes you think will help!
You two were together 2 years so there must be some good memories for him to reflect on… Don’t lose hope yet…