Because I can 
! Iam very curious …. So is near Silicon Valley ? Why is everything complicated with you and your ex gf?
Finally home, it’s getting late.
Because you can, that’s a good reason…
What would I do if I could…
Where do you live? Haha 
Yes, that’s what the area is called… West Coast… near San Jose and SF… My house is in Santa Cruz…
Let me answer your question… Because I wanted to do it right — I can — 
and it didn’t work for her, as if we were speaking different languages. She said “I love you” in Chinese and I replied in Spanish and didn’t know what she was saying…
hi…
yes so shit happens
Dear @Kevin ,
thought 
about what to write with a slight note, and I haven’t a good idea. It’s been two weeks since I broke , the longest I think about it the more stupid it was. My Motivation is to return back to Tenerife in a few months…. Hopefully then have a talk with him eye to eye and get in good Connection before. BUT HOW doing this? You recommend to keep nc-rule for 3 months/ until he could be ready again to go back in touch. It feels hard and long for me , even iam just at day 15. 3 months from broke is December to get back reconnected… so should I try earlier , and if what should I write ? What would you write ? Ps. Thx a lot for your daily mails:wink:
Hi,
Since you are going through a separation, you must understand your mind and body will try to fill the hole in your life and you will crave your ex boyfriend more. However, I am not sure if it will be healthy for you or your ex boyfriend to get back together at this time.
My advice is to do no contact for at least 3 months before speaking to him. During this time, really think about whether or not you want him in your life. And if you still want to reach out, just reach out with a simple, “Hi, how are you?” and just see how he responds.
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Dear Kevin !
I don’t intend to get in touch before December 1st. From the moment of getting in NC was August 29th. So I regarded your advice to wait longer than the usual 30days. I know I will get well through this time and process . My job just gave me enough to do for the next months. The point is, iam going to return to Tenerife at the end of December, so until then it would be nice to get in touch again and maybe spend a day together- if he like. That’s my intention. Would it make sense to tell him sorry , for my writing directly after the broke? Best regards, N.