After messing things up I have to say that I didn’t follow the guide. I called before I texted to make first contact after NC. Who ever reads this, do yourself a favor. If you think you are OK to call him, don’t do it. You are not. Although I didn’t mean to, I think I came across cold. When I called him, he called me back instantly, and suggested we meet up. I was using getting my stuff back as an excuse to call, and I didn’t jump to set up a specific day to meet. Needless to say, I haven’t heard from him since. I called him back 2 days after the first contact call and left a message. That was friday. No response. Monday I decided to send him a feel good text hoping to maybe undo some of what I screwed up. No response. I sent him another feel good text today. No response yet. That’s it for now. I think I might have already over done it with the texts, so I won’t text him again for atleast a week. Some inspiring words would be helpful right about now.
It could’ve been the excuse you gave him. Plus, if you were accidentally cold sounding…it probably refreshed the bad shit that happened to cause the breakup.
Keep cool. Stop texting. I honestly would wait longer than a week to contact him again. That’s just me though…
Next time, whether it’s calling or texting…have a game plan.
These words may not inspire, but just hang in there. Stay strong.
It’s funny. At the time my game plan was originally to leave a pleasant voice mail, which I did, but he called me back while I was leaving it. I didn’t think I would actually talk to him!
Can I ask who did the breaking up?
He did