After No Contact and a date.. what now?

Hey guys!

My girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago. It was mostly mutual, although I instantly regretted it. I took her for granted and didn’t treat her as well as I should have towards the end of the relationship, I just didn’t see it at the time.

I went no contact for just under a month, and contacted her afterwards. Since then we occasionally talk. We’ve met for a coffee and a catch-up. I have helped her drive to practice for her driving test. She occasionally sends me memes. Whenever we meet it’s casual and I always make her laugh.

We did also have a talk about relationship stuff last week (though I didn’t plan on it). She said she was really glad to see me but she’s happy as she is now. When I left soon after we hugged goodbye and she clung on for a really long time. She said she still loves me though. Mixed signals D:

My question is now, what do I do? She bought me a coffee last time we met, so I was planning on asking her to Nandos or something to pay her back. We’ve both changed a lot since the relationship but I would do anything to get her back.

Any advice? Thanks!!

This one is difficult because only you have the total history of the relationship and where it is now. And you already did no contact and are now back in contact. The best thing to do is take it slowly. And you can consider why you both broke up before and see if you can make sure whatever those issues were wouldn’t be an issue again.