I agree with bguarino, lol and aaron4 did I understand what you wrote right? she wants to be with her cousin?
No no lmao. She said “you can text me but I’ll be with tab” meaning she’s hanging out with her cousin lmao. Now what should I do, do I say “it can wait till another time then” or do I just say what I wanna say. I wanna give her info on the school that she wanted to go to in the first place. And I wanna do it as a “friendly gesture”. So what do I do or say??
oh lol, I was like am I reading this wrong, lol. I think if you really wanna contact her then send her a text to see how she acts towards you, then you would know what to say from there. good luck, 
So I don’t get right to it by asking her “hey so I was curious when you sign up for school are you going to sign up for the school you wanted to go to?”. Or first ask how she is?
I would go with hey how are you doing? just to see how she acts, but its up to you how you want to say it. you know your situation better then anyone here. keep us posted.
She said “I’m okay and you?”. How do you think she’s going about it??
It took her about 20 mins to answer
sounds positive
So do I wait abit to respond? And what should I say so I don’t seem so needy and whatever
Hey sorry, went out for a quick run. I was just reminded…[enter your question here]
like aamls said you know her best
just ask her what you wanted to know and say and see what she says. its up to you if you want to respond fast or not, but responding right away doesnt it make you look needy maybe wait a few and then ask her and see what happens. good luck.
what do ya think of my latest situation? any advise? @bguarino and@Aaron4
Give him space, don’t ask questions. Act like you don’t care about the marriage anymore & just agree with whatever he says, maybe once he knows that your ready to move on, he will come running back. Cause right now, does he know that you miss him & still care about him? If he does, just change your attitude completely, yes care for your kids obviously, but right now you need a night for yourself, call a friend up and go out for a drink? Meet some guys at the bar or something, make HIM think you are happy & an independent woman. And that’s all I got for you, hope it was enough 
So she was very short with every reply, I guess you can say cold? Idk you tell me. I first said “hey how’re you?” She said “I’m ok and you?” I said “I’m alright. I was just wondering if & when you apply for school, is centennial the school your still wanting to go to?” She said “Depends on what one I get accepted to why?” I said “Well I got an email from centennial telling me about all there hours for tours & what campus’s there are. There’s four different campus’s that have the tours during the week, depending on which campus you go to. But there’s also an open house for their school November 23rd at 1pm. Just thought I’d give you some information about it. But the open house is more then a tour, so that would probably be a good idea if you were interested in going.” She said “Ok, thankyou” then I said lastly “If you need a ride or some company I’d be willing to go with you if you’d like. But for now, we both need our space. Just thought I’d share that information with you. Take care.” Then the last thing she said was “Thank you. Hope everything is going good with you”. Have I lost her? I don’t know what to think of this 
please advice!
Everything is ok.Restart NC and continue it for a month.Then text her with one of the text versions mentioned in the article.
But was I to needy or did I seem desperate? A.z i would like your intake on no contact & why you believe it works so much, you seem to think it’s the best thing to do to get my ex back, have you been through this before?
No,you didn’t seem desperate.Only doing NC can not help anyone to get an ex back.I insist on following the plan and doing NC is a part of a plan i can say the most important part of the plan.During this time you will learn how to find happiness without your ex and you will become yourself.The attractive version of you.The one who made her fall in love with you.Right now,your ex knows everything about your feelings and unfortunately as much as you love her,thats not attractive to her.Thats human nature.As soon as you start NC,she will begin to forget the needy version of you,the bad memories etc and thats why you should continue it.You want her to believe that you are doing great in your life and she should will be wondering what happened to you and it makes her think about her decision about the break up again.
After NC is finished,when you open the lines of communication,she will see the best version of you (thats why you should make positive changes in your life).When you say nothing about getting back together,she will be wondering if you still love her or not (thats why you should act like a friend).The more you act like a friend,the more you can attract her.When there is no pressure,she feels comfortable talking to you,then you will meet and you can reattract her.
Getting an ex back may takes time so you should be patient.You should take it slow and you should play everything cool.
You can’t talk about the break up,the negative memories,getting back together until the fourth meeting.
No one can guarantee that this will work for you but it absolutely will increase your chances.Its worked for so many people even in worse situations.
And yes.Its worked for me.I did NC for 34 days and my ex contacted me.I followed the plan and he was chasing me for a month,we met and all he was talking about was how much he loved me etc.Everything was going well but i couldn’t control my emotions,he knew exactly how much i loved him and it made him not to say anything about getting back together.Thats why i keep positing checklist for ending NC to everyone.Its really important that you become a completely happy confident person without your ex.
After 6 months,i started NC again,i started enjoying my life and i stopped thinking about him,i did every thing mentioned in the article and this time i was doing it for myself.After 20 days he started contacting me,i ignored him so many times,he did everything to talk to me (calling my friends crying etc ),i ignored him so many times and when i answered him,he was begging for me back.
I have been here for a long while and i know almost everyone’s stories on the boards and comment sections.Trust me,it has worked for so many people.
I have been trying to show everyone everything kevin has taught me and its working for many of them.
Best of luck
One question, do I have to start from day 1 of no contact since I texted her? It was casual & I didn’t talk about our relationship so does that still mean I need to start no contact over again?
So I was going through the news feed and saw that my ex posted one of those quotes that have a picture for it if you know what I mean & it says “life goes on…whether you choose to move on & take a chance in the unknown. Or stay behind locked in the past, thinking of what could’ve been”. Any insight on that?
So to get my mind off everything, I joined a dating site, is that bad?!