Advice on ending no contact

Hey everyone, I am thinking about ending no contact with my ex girlfriend in about a week or two. I don’t know which way to go if I should write a letter to her or doing the "false friendship " talked about in Relationship Rewind. If I do the letter I was thinking on doing something that includes both things in the “Magic Letter” talked about in Relationship Rewind and what Kevin suggest to write. Would that be a good idea? I guess I would put some of the “Magic Letter” because I feel she is starting to move on and I feel like she might not be the same person anymore. I guess I kind of hope that approach will win her over and hope to see results quicker. I also would do the “false friendship” but not sure if I would be able to keep it up. Any advice please? Or send the letter then the “false friendship”? I guess to be honest I’m starting to feel kind of desperate and feel like she is moving on she got a gym membership and looks much different on her Facebook pictures. Am I being too hasty or should I do something else. I’m not sure if I’m doing the right thing. Please help me out.

She isn’t moving on in 30 days so don’t worry about that.

Hmmm…I would send the letter first. And then I would wait two weeks after the letter if she does not respond and call her. I would then just ask her if she is up for getting together for a drink or lunch? If she says yes, your instincts will kick in and you will be able to tell where she is at and next steps.